Seems to be a bit crazy to be slating a phone which obviously isn't working properly, my DHD isn't laggy in the slightest, the touch sensitive buttons work flawlessly and are easily as responsive as physical buttons maybe even more so, and until Google Maps updated to version 5 the HTC locations app was superior.
If the only downside of the new sense is that they added a few apps that you don't like well then it's not a huge downside.
It's not only the unneeded applications, it's the fact they've slaughtered all of the menus.
For example, when you long press the home screen, you're greeted with a load of crap unlike on the original Sense. Long pressing the home screen should be for adding widgets and short cuts.
The new Sense skins look as if they've been made by amateurs in Gimp portable imaging suite, I mean Wood, really?
The "recent applications" in the notification menu is not well thought out because you see a 4x1 row of applications, allowing you to see maximum of four latest applications.
That's no improvement to holding down the home button and seeing a 4x2 overlay, enabling you to see all eight without the need to scroll.
Only benefit to the video's I've seen of HTC Locations is the fact the maps are off line, but I would rather have the latest POI's from the cloud any day of the week.
Also the more junk you have running, the more sqlite writes will be happening which is what I believe is happening on the DesireHD and no amount of RAM will help there seeing as each data base write is forced to the disk upon write.
I bought my Desire at launch, and the DesireHD just seems so bloated in comparison and the experience left me disappointed.