Healing thoughts for my Aunt

Neil79

Neil79

Neil79

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If anyone believes in healing or atleast positive thoughts please give them out to my aunt, she's in her mid 70's but very close to my mum. My mum's sister is the last of her family, when she goes she will have no one to talk about the good old times. Sure she has me as her son, her other son and two daughters but my mum has had a difficult life. Other sister suicide , her dad cancer when she was a kid and her mother blood clot. She has no mother or father anymore, and just one sister left.

My aunt is not very well at all, she was diagnosed with cancer with a huge lump on her breast and this looks to have spread throughout her body. A lump on her neck and one on her head. My mum was clearly upset and what concerns me is my mum's hole in her heart with stroke risk and the impact this will have, if anything happens to my mum as she is very close to me. I'll end it right now, i feel i'll have nothing left.
 
Sounds a very sad situation, but try to be strong for your aunt and mother as now they need you now the most.

My thoughts go to the three of you.
 
She put her hand across a picture, her two sisters, her mum and she said " i'm the only one left ", " i don't want her to die ". I've never seen my mum cry so hard with her head on the steering wheel.

I don't know what i can do, i'm hurting so much i feel my mum's pain and sadness with her family and what's she is going through.

I said i will be strong for her, but what ever happens she has to be strong at the end of this for her daughters and sons.
 
I never normally post in these types of threads, but you seem like a very nice guy to me Neil79 and I wish you all the best.
 
me227 said:
I never normally post in these types of threads, but you seem like a very nice guy to me Neil79 and I wish you all the best.
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I have my moments of being an ass :p, but thanks and thankyou to everyone else it means a lot to me. I was very emotional last night and couldn't sleep, hopefully this new camera club i'm joining will cheer me up atleast some.
 
I went to my work class today, found it very difficult to talk. Someone asked me what's wrong and i just broke down. I've never broke down in public before but it's hit me that hard :(
 
Neil79 said:
I went to my work class today, found it very difficult to talk. Someone asked me what's wrong and i just broke down. I've never broke down in public before but it's hit me that hard :(
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Hardly surprising, it sounds like a bloody awful situation to be in.

Don't feel bad about finding it difficult.
 
Neil79 said:
She put her hand across a picture, her two sisters, her mum and she said " i'm the only one left ", " i don't want her to die ". I've never seen my mum cry so hard with her head on the steering wheel.

I don't know what i can do, i'm hurting so much i feel my mum's pain and sadness with her family and what's she is going through.

I said i will be strong for her, but what ever happens she has to be strong at the end of this for her daughters and sons.
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All you can do is be there for her mate, that's enough. Good luck.
 
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