this is a personal bugbear of mine.
Half of the time, the "recommended" oil for the car is just an excuse to push somebodys products.
Take my volvo for example - they recommend the car be used with a grade of oil and to use castrol - but castrol don't sell that grade of oil to the general public. The full name of the product Volvo recommends is Castrol SLX Professional Longtec For Volvo Engines
Only availabe from ... guess what .. your local volvo dealer for something stupid like £40 a litre.
In reality of course, people have substituted the oil for other fully synthetic castrol oils of similar ratings (volvo say 0W30 A5/B5) but Castrol Edge 0W30 A3/B4 despite not being A5/B5 is absolutely fine.
I would speak to a specialist independant on the telephone somewhere and see what they would use. Likewise consult owners forums.
It may well be the case that grade of oil is fine too.