Best place to meet girls?

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doddsy105 said:
Anybody have any ideas on where to meet nice girls, sick of meeting them on nights out and they either turn out to be annoying or you know nothing about them and have nothing in common etc
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Or they hit the light outside and ARGH :eek:

If you don't feel like going to knitting circles or wherever, as someone said before quieter bars and clubs are around that you can actually chat to them before the whole arbitrary 'chained up in a wedding dress' malarky begins.
 
Amp34 said:
OP, best place would be at uni, specifically on a "girls" course like the ologies (Psychology, Sociology etc) and Geography.
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But then she'd be a ... a ... a student. Whilst this is perfectly natural if you yourself are a student - and therefore cannot attain better, more normal women because of this - to give this advice to someone who is hopefully not unfortunate enough to be one is really not helping him.
 
I've always found parties the best place since the girl will be a friend of a friend, and you are in a very casual atmosphere where you are expected to introduce yourself and make new friends etc.

I've found that gyms (doing stuff like circuits) are great for making female acquaintances but they seem to put you firmly in the friends basket.

Otherwise clubs. Skiing/soccer/wine tasting/photography/various sports etc. Same interests, easy atmosphere.
 
OP, go to a Weight Watchers class. If you can't score there, with all those vulnerable fatties that will jump at the chance to feel better about themselves, you should give up entirely.
 
D.P. said:
I've always found parties the best place since the girl will be a friend of a friend, and you are in a very casual atmosphere where you are expected to introduce yourself and make new friends etc.
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This.

I'm a girl :) might even pass as a "nice" girl - and I met my boyfriend of 2 years through a friend. Went to school with a girl called Tracey, lost touch with her during uni, got back in touch when she came home at the end of her degree, and went to a New Year's Eve party in 2008 with her, at one of her friend's houses that I hadn't met before. Paul (my bf) had been at primary school with her way-back-when, but I'd never been introduced to him.

Had spotted Paul during that summer at Tracey's birthday party, and thought he was hot, New Year's Eve and we got to chatting, New Year's smooch, last two standing in a sambuca drinking contest... What a beautiful story to tell the grandkids ;)

In all seriousness though, I felt good going into the relationship because Tracey knew and could tell me what a great guy he was and I trusted her judgement - she was right, he's awesome :)

Good luck!
 
D.P. said:
I've always found parties the best place since the girl will be a friend of a friend, and you are in a very casual atmosphere where you are expected to introduce yourself and make new friends etc.

I've found that gyms (doing stuff like circuits) are great for making female acquaintances but they seem to put you firmly in the friends basket.

Otherwise clubs. Skiing/soccer/wine tasting/photography/various sports etc. Same interests, easy atmosphere.
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Agree with this - pretty much sums up my experience.
 
I know what you mean OP about them not being who you think they are.

Personally I find the best way to meet them is to not even look, eventually you'll just click with someone in everyday life and it'll work. I looked for ages before meeting my current GF and had no luck, we worked together for ages and though I fancied her never asked her out. One night at a work party we ended up chatting all night and have been going out since, it just happened because we knew each other well already.
 
[FnG]magnolia;18268556 said:
But then she'd be a ... a ... a student. Whilst this is perfectly natural if you yourself are a student - and therefore cannot attain better, more normal women because of this - to give this advice to someone who is hopefully not unfortunate enough to be one is really not helping him.
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What's wrong with student girls? They're generally smarter, slimmer and more attractive than the general population....;)

Unfortunately for you non students really who are left with the fat, rude chavs. :p

(This post is only partly in jest... I still don't know why students girls are generally slimmer and more attractive:confused:)
 
shauncr91 said:
I know what you mean OP about them not being who you think they are.

Personally I find the best way to meet them is to not even look, eventually you'll just click with someone in everyday life and it'll work. I looked for ages before meeting my current GF and had no luck, we worked together for ages and though I fancied her never asked her out. One night at a work party we ended up chatting all night and have been going out since, it just happened because we knew each other well already.
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Problem with that is sometimes you end up in the friend territory, specifically the idea you don't want to mess up a friendship after knowing them so long on an off chance. I agree though, geting to know someone a little before asking them out is best, just need to get the line right.
 
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