Soldato
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Well what do you do?
I have a very good friend that when he is into wow that is pretty much all he talks about, we are quite close friends and without wow in the equation we can have some great diverse and interesting conversations but wow has effected that recently, now I also play wow, but normally once or twice a week, I can take it or leave it, and of course I'm not adverse to having the odd chat about it myself but not all time as if it's an actual real world.
Now basically last night I tried to make some hints that unfortunately ended up falling by the wayside, so in the end I just came out with it, I told him "look dude no offence, I've been dropping some hints but I don't really want to listen to you talking about wow every time we chat" which I did kind of feel a bit guilty about because I don't want him to feel that he can't ever talk to me about it, but just tone it down a bit, do you know what I mean?
Some of you may ask whether he is addicted, ummm, not atm (although a couple of years ago it got bad), a few weeks back he was starting to play about 6-8 hours a day which may not sound a lot but that is most of his free time, he is one of these people that isn't brilliant at balancing stuff that they 'enjoy', during that period he said that he would rather play wow than have a girl friend and tbh I wasn't quite sure how to take that statement, of course we all have a choice whether we want a GF or not, I myself am not a great advocator of 'social norms' being pushed upon people but I still thought it was an odd thing to say really, but then he has told me that his first love is anime, it seems that wow attracts a lot of these 'personality types'.
I have a very good friend that when he is into wow that is pretty much all he talks about, we are quite close friends and without wow in the equation we can have some great diverse and interesting conversations but wow has effected that recently, now I also play wow, but normally once or twice a week, I can take it or leave it, and of course I'm not adverse to having the odd chat about it myself but not all time as if it's an actual real world.
Now basically last night I tried to make some hints that unfortunately ended up falling by the wayside, so in the end I just came out with it, I told him "look dude no offence, I've been dropping some hints but I don't really want to listen to you talking about wow every time we chat" which I did kind of feel a bit guilty about because I don't want him to feel that he can't ever talk to me about it, but just tone it down a bit, do you know what I mean?
Some of you may ask whether he is addicted, ummm, not atm (although a couple of years ago it got bad), a few weeks back he was starting to play about 6-8 hours a day which may not sound a lot but that is most of his free time, he is one of these people that isn't brilliant at balancing stuff that they 'enjoy', during that period he said that he would rather play wow than have a girl friend and tbh I wasn't quite sure how to take that statement, of course we all have a choice whether we want a GF or not, I myself am not a great advocator of 'social norms' being pushed upon people but I still thought it was an odd thing to say really, but then he has told me that his first love is anime, it seems that wow attracts a lot of these 'personality types'.
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