Healing thoughts for my Aunt

Well fwiw you certainly have our best wishes, thoughts and prayers with you all at this horribly difficult time. As others have said, you need to be there for your family and try to stay strong. However, that doesn't mean neglect yourself and your own needs. Talk to a friend, neighbour, teacher, pastor, or even the Samaritans. It might not sound like it, but it'll help.

Chin up fella, and best wishes to Aunti Joany.
 
Not related but more stress for my poor mum's heart, her ex-husband not divorced is basically bullying my mum into keep raising his credit card limit. The Card is in his name but under her account if that makes any sense :confused:, thing is every month he goes over the limit and just says oh i think i've gone over. My mum is **** scared of him ( ex millitary, weight lifter ) even though i told her not to give him anymore money and no credit cards. She was bullied into getting him one. The guy wont stop with the money requests and a few years back when cleaning up his old house i found documents from loads of different credit cards.

He was even on an ISA once
 
Neil79 said:
Not related but more stress for my poor mum's heart, her ex-husband not divorced is basically bullying my mum into keep raising his credit card limit. The Card is in his name but under her account if that makes any sense :confused:, thing is every month he goes over the limit and just says oh i think i've gone over. My mum is **** scared of him ( ex millitary, weight lifter ) even though i told her not to give him anymore money and no credit cards. She was bullied into getting him one. The guy wont stop with the money requests and a few years back when cleaning up his old house i found documents from loads of different credit cards.

He was even on an ISA once
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Sorry but I would never let a man treat my mother like that, stand up to him. Hes your step dad, sort him out.
 
Really sorry to hear your sad, sad news Neil. I know It's almost impossible, but you have to keep your head together for the sake of your mum. Sounds like she has never needed you as much as she does now. All the best mate and best wishes to all involved.

Sponge
 
Good news this evening regarding the results!

My Aunt doesn't have bone cancer, they came back ok :):)

Thankyou everyone for your thoughts and prayers, my mum is much happier because of it
 
I wonder if someone could help or who i could talk to, my mum is under incredible strain as she was in tears again today. It's not just her whole life but the men around her ( ex,boyfriend ) walking over her. She finds it so difficult to deal with and to say NO. I'm getting so fustrated because i can't do f'all, i've had words with these blokes before but it still comes down to my mum not backing down. But being that she is a self harmer , i feel she needs someone to talk to. Add the family concerns with her aunt aswell , Councling e.t.c is needed

Not sure who to turn to, if i lose my temper with her ex and boyfriend it will go back to her and i'll feel it's my fault.

Life really is not on a high note, we get good news then taken away again two days later. She said to me that she is very close to having a break down
 
Thats terrible news mate, my thoughts are with you and your family :(

I sincerely hope she pulls through, the human race has lost too many to cancer..
 
My aunt now has throat cancer, so it's spreading a lot :(:(

My mum is really taking a bashing with everything that is going on around her, not just her sister but life in general... Life has been incredibly hard for this family and isn't getting any better, i wish i could tell people about everything else that's gone on but i can't

Very sad :(
 
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