Holding hands, Linking arms, Wrapping Arm around eachother...

Hxc · 7 Feb 2011 at 21:18

Raymond Lin said:
Holding hands is easy, linking arms through your is easy, not sure about arm round the waist for long periods.

What i find really hard is when sleeping and cuddle or spoon, what the heck do you do with the arm on the bottom. Cant let her sleep on it, it gets comfortable when i rest my head on it for long periods and it creates a gap if i put it in front of me.

Under her neck... I have puny woman arms though.

Raymond Lin · 7 Feb 2011 at 21:21

Hxc said:
Under her neck... I have puny woman arms though.

Not going to work, one girl didn't been sleep on pillows. She kinda end up pushing them up towards the headboard for some reason.

KaHn · 7 Feb 2011 at 21:22

Freefaller said:
That's what they've all done in the past - I get so warm I usually sleep above the covers! However they've all managed to sneak themselves around me later! Even buying myself a king size didn't help!

Surprise surprise ya hairy beast

KaHn

el_dazza · 7 Feb 2011 at 21:24

Raymond Lin said:
Holding hands is easy, linking arms through your is easy, not sure about arm round the waist for long periods.

What i find really hard is when sleeping and cuddle or spoon, what the heck do you do with the arm on the bottom. Cant let her sleep on it, it gets comfortable when i rest my head on it for long periods and it creates a gap if i put it in front of me.

THIS! Such a pain, don't know where to put the other arm!

Freefaller · 7 Feb 2011 at 21:25

I am a walking hotwater bottler - seriously I often wear shorts even in the winter!

KaHn · 7 Feb 2011 at 21:29

Being from the Newcastle area I don't feel the cold either, albeit with a lot less hair and not being mistaken for a big foot

KaHn

secretspy · 7 Feb 2011 at 21:31

My ex used to tuck his arm under my neck and wrap it around, seemed to work. But he also did the hug and roll just as id start to nod off lol. But as above I'd wait then snuggle him again hehe. He was always warm and me always cold so I don't think he got too hot. I do find though that if I'm resting my head on a guys chest I don't know where to put my arm so I tend to tuck it under the pillow or hug myself lol

I miss snuggles

zebedeee · 7 Feb 2011 at 21:32

those of you that have the option to hold hands or walk with each others hands in pockets or whatever should class yourselves as lucky whatever you prefer to do, there are some that don't even get the option,

yes it's true some just get to pay the bills and troll through forums to fill their time, and once in a while they will feel like it's their birthday when they get a slight smile from the local shop assistant

zebedeee · 7 Feb 2011 at 21:36

and before it's suggested that i'm 1 of those ppl you can think again....

I never think it's my birthday :rolleyes:

Mason- · 7 Feb 2011 at 21:38

zebedeee said:
those of you that have the option to hold hands or walk with each others hands in pockets or whatever should class yourselves as lucky whatever you prefer to do, there are some that don't even get the option,

yes it's true some just get to pay the bills and troll through forums to fill their time, and once in a while they will feel like it's their birthday when they get a slight smile from the local shop assistant

Chin up mate.

BloomerzUK · 7 Feb 2011 at 21:39

Hxc said:
Always holding hands avec le GF

Cosimo · 7 Feb 2011 at 21:41

This holding hands lovey-dovey stuff stops when you get married.

Deadbeat · 7 Feb 2011 at 21:44

I've always been very tactile with my partners, but then I've always been very tactile with friends, too. It's caused me a few issues before, but I've never felt anything but right and proper in relationships with partners or friends. I guess I'm just a touchy person. Luckily, I'm also blessed with the intuition to know when certain people don't appreciate it.

Deadbeat · 7 Feb 2011 at 21:45

secretspy said:
My ex used to tuck it under my neck and wrap it around, seemed to work

Edit : Double post instead of editing. Facepalm.

danza · 7 Feb 2011 at 21:52

el_dazza said:
THIS! Such a pain, don't know where to put the other arm!

Tell me about it! I manage to sleep like this about 1 in 20 attempts. Most of the time it becomes unbearably uncomfortable within about 30 seconds, and it's time to hug & roll. The exact position (and it is exact), requires superior muscle memory to that which is possessed by Tiger Woods.

Infam0us · 8 Feb 2011 at 01:47

Fenris said:
I see, you've clearly worked out that showing any form of emotion towards another human being of either sex in public automatically makes you gay.

I lol'd

Cupra · 8 Feb 2011 at 02:06

im with hedge here

but im not one for "snuggling" either

Deific · 8 Feb 2011 at 02:45

Raymond Lin said:
What i find really hard is when sleeping and cuddle or spoon, what the heck do you do with the arm on the bottom. Cant let her sleep on it, it gets comfortable when i rest my head on it for long periods and it creates a gap if i put it in front of me.

It goes through the gap between her neck and pillow then comes round the front for a firm boob grasp.

RimBlock · 8 Feb 2011 at 03:38

Deific said:
It goes through the gap between her neck and pillow then comes round the front for a firm boob grasp.

Yep, that's the one. Wrap the other arm around under her top arm and go for the double funbag fondle.

I also get really hot at night for some reason. I used to think it was the girlfriends until I came to realise I was the one common item in the equation. I tend to hug then roll when she seems to be fairly asleep. I am quite happy to have her cuddle up behind me though. It is a bit funny when she tries to throw her top leg (laying on her side) over my top leg, repeatedly, though :confused:

.

FF:
She is not trying to cuddle up to you, it is just that there is not enough bed after you get in. Remember the slumberland hippo and chick advert

.

RB

Nix · 8 Feb 2011 at 03:44

RimBlock said:
I also get really hot at night for some reason. I used to think it was the girlfriends until I came to realise I was the one common item in the equation. I tend to hug then roll when she seems to be fairly asleep. I am quite happy to have her cuddle up behind me though. It is a bit funny when she tries to throw her top leg (laying on her side) over my top leg, repeatedly, though .

So basically, you're the little spoon.