Asking someone out over facebook...

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Bit creepy if you add someone and ask them out via message at the same time?

There's a girl that I cross paths with every few weeks but so infrequently see. To cut a long story short we've also seen each other out a couple of times and seem to get on really well, such as a couple of nights ago. Silly me forgot to ask for her number though and the last time this happened we didn't see each other for a couple of months...

So yeah, creepy?:o
 
Depends if you will get the opportunity to get her number and/or see her in person. If not, you've nothing to lose.
 
Hmmm a bit, if you've JUST added.

Maybe not ask out straight away. Suggest something in the future casually in conversation/messages back and forth.

Basically, get a rapor going first.

Oh, and for the record FB is guff.
 
I would add her on the pretence of saying is was nice to see her the other night or something, then once in conversation invite her on another night out or for a coffee or similar.

I certainly wouldn't add her and invite her out at the same time!
 
Tom0 said:
Hmmm a bit, if you've JUST added.

Maybe not ask out straight away. Suggest something in the future casually in conversation/messages back and forth.

Basically, get a rapor going first.

Oh, and for the record FB is guff.
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That was my thought, and yeah I hate facebook but it is potentially the only way I can contact her without being potentially even more creepy and asking her friends for her number/contact...:p
 
The only thing that will stop you from looking like a manbaby shut-in living in your parents' basement is if you have no other possible way of speaking with her.

I don't care about what Herpy McDerpy might tell you about evolving 'social media' and 'internet interaction' and all that other BS. ONLY use bookface if you cannot talk to her in any other way. Or if you're 13 years old.

*awaits Herpy McDerpys to tell him how wrong he is, Herp Derp*
 
Why not add her, chat to her, find out if any of her plans cross over with yours in the near future, i.e. going out on such and such a night to such and such, if your plans were the same, tell her that and that maybe you'll see her out, when out, get her number then, and then give her a call a couple of days later.

Don't do it over facebook. Deffo not.
 
Can't you just ask her for her number in person when you next cross paths? Would be a better and less creepy/stalker way of doing it IMO.
 
add her, speak to her there for a week then ask her on phone or face... or desperate chat anything "real"

you might find out shes a complete and utter lunatic via facebook saving you some time.
 
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