ARGH!!! PArents!!

hux · 27 Feb 2011 at 06:54

Not a lot you can do im afraid, my mother was the same years back, she's only changed cos her body is letting her down, what with diabetes and arthritis, so cba to get up to such shenanigans.

Just ignore her and let her get on with it, she'll eventually realize what a plank she is being , or your dad will get fed up and lamp her one.

You could phone social services and get her sectioned, but that would be rather cruel lol

hurfdurf · 27 Feb 2011 at 06:59

Lock your door next time?

hux · 27 Feb 2011 at 07:03

That would be a bad move, if she's anything like mine that door will be coming off.

sigma · 27 Feb 2011 at 07:34

hurfdurf said:
Lock your door next time?

No stand and bang?

Ground and pound?

mattyprice4004 · 27 Feb 2011 at 08:58

steve-h said:
Sounds like needs her pasty filling. Help her out.

Duuuuuuuude.

Knubje · 27 Feb 2011 at 10:46

I had issues similar to this but not quite the same when I was younger and living at home. I went to Uni and moved out, thats the solution.

Your Mum sounds like a bit of a ****. She will see you as "hers" and as a little child for the rest of your life more than likely. It might get better when you have a wife and kids but not by much.

Sounds like your old tit does what mine did, guilt trips and every other which way to get you to do stuff for them. The old classic "We do things for you" when you reject them telling you to go do something straight away even though you are clearly in the middle of something!

No real advice, just empathy.

KillBoY_UK · 27 Feb 2011 at 10:51

Knubje said:
The old classic "We do things for you" when you reject them telling you to go do something straight away even though you are clearly in the middle of something!

No real advice, just empathy.

I hated when my folks said things like that, not like I had much of a choice of being born but they sure did lol.

Naff8000 · 27 Feb 2011 at 10:58

mollymoo said:
You should let Jeremy Kyle sort it out

I think this passes as an application for the show. Dis-functional? check, violence? check, throwing objects not designed to be thrown? check, asking her son to buy her fags? check

SexyGreyFox · 27 Feb 2011 at 13:01

A.N.Other said:
WTF is an "old bid". You buying something on eBay?

I've been using it for at least 40 years in Stoke.
Common round these parts to call your Mum that.

*Moangroan* · 27 Feb 2011 at 14:15

Jaffa_Far said:
I have anger issues, and ADD, yet she still has to have a go if I forget something or whatever.

Now I wonder which family member you picked those traits up from...

TheGedi · 27 Feb 2011 at 15:33

Throw a hoover at her TV when Jezza Kyle is on. See how she likes it. Oh and ask her to go to the shop and get you crisps immediately

nex20 · 27 Feb 2011 at 16:55

Move out?

maddness · 28 Feb 2011 at 23:12

Next time throw your pc at the Hoover, your the one wearing the pants in the house!

mrk · 28 Feb 2011 at 23:13

maddness said:
Next time throw your pc at the Hoover, your the one wearing the pants in the house!

That would suck

JBuk · 28 Feb 2011 at 23:13

dump her

Murray · 28 Feb 2011 at 23:14

maddness said:
Next time throw your pc at the Hoover, your the one wearing the pants in the house!

or her face.

Cosimo · 28 Feb 2011 at 23:14

Khaaan! said:
That would suck

It would suck both ways.

^TANK^ · 28 Feb 2011 at 23:19

Cleeecooo · 28 Feb 2011 at 23:29

^TANK^ said:

Rofllmfaolol

person · 28 Feb 2011 at 23:59

Jaffa_Far said:
So, just had a row with my old bid. She came into my room, saw I was gaming away, busy, and asked me, no, told me to go the shop for her fags, and lend her the money...I said let me finish this and then I will. She threw a right hissy fit, moaning and shouting and slamming things, she threw the hoover at my PC case, luckily nothing is in the case, and smashed all the front up, so bye bye HAF932 . She won't replace it, as 'she did nothing wrong' and apparently it's all my fault . I really do hate her at times .

/RANT

Sounds exactly like my mum she always does stuff like this and makes me run around after her and go to the shops for either fags or wine, I don't always want to do it but if I don't the guilt trip that follows is never ending. I did get a break when I moved out but now ive had to move home again due to my earnings not covering the costs of running a flat, im back to running round after her and now she gets half my wage which as its not much to start with leaves me with next to nothing. Having said that she is my mum and the only real parent I have so just get on with it .....