Not exactly necessary that comment now, was it?
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Not exactly necessary that comment now, was it?
Don't be a ****. I'm sure you think you're absolutely "hilarious" but when you're genuinely upset stupid little jokes like yours (no matter how ridiculous) can really be hurtful.
@OP. Well done. My first relationship (age 17 to 20) should have ended earlier than it did but I ignored the warning signs (buried my head in the sand) and ended up being even worse when it finally did come to a conclusion. I got over her though and after a little while I met my current girlfriend and only then I realised how bad of a match my ex and I were!
. You don't have to put up with a bad or even mediocre relationship just because you've been together for "x" amount of time 
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[TW]Fox;18693079 said:
Totally this.
If someone really takes what some random on an internet forum says to heart, then they have much larger issues than a 'depressing relationship'. ¬_¬
im in the same boat, but the other way round. but there is a house and 2 kids involved, so its quite a lot different. my wife to be finished it with me about a month ago.. i've just been trying to cope as best as i can really, there's nothing else to say, i'm not gonna try and get back with her if she doesn't feel the same as she used to, or doesn't want me anymore. ergh... what a mess. 
meh, shouldn't really be venting on here i guess..
all i can say is you need to talk it out, and ask yourself is this going to happen again another year down the line with feelings and stuff.
meh, shouldn't really be venting on here i guess..all i can say is you need to talk it out, and ask yourself is this going to happen again another year down the line with feelings and stuff.
Doesn't mean cheap shots have to be made though does it.
im in the same boat, but the other way round. but there is a house and 2 kids involved, so its quite a lot different. my wife to be finished it with me about a month ago.. i've just been trying to cope as best as i can really, there's nothing else to say, i'm not gonna try and get back with her if she doesn't feel the same as she used to, or doesn't want me anymore. ergh... what a mess.
all i can say is you need to talk it out, and ask yourself is this going to happen again another year down the line with feelings and stuff.
All the best fella, keep your head up
All the best fella, keep your head up
thanks, i appreciate it
Split up with my ex, a month before we were due to be married... Both better off for it, Takes a while to get over it all. Think Raymond Lin said it best, Dont sit in the house all depressed, get out and have a laugh! I did and it worked a treat
A year on, i'm now in a reasonable job, sharing a nice house with a friend, and 4 weeks into a new relationship, life could not be better!!
A year on, i'm now in a reasonable job, sharing a nice house with a friend, and 4 weeks into a new relationship, life could not be better!!
Ah that's a **** situation. Kids make it so hard when this happens, especially for men
As said, keep your head up and look forwards not back. You need to make sure all time with your kids is good time and don't let either of you use them as a weapon (it happens even when parents don't realise it).
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If you google some of the following you'll find a very, VERY useful thread which I can't link to unfortunately because of some naughty words.
Dude, I've been in the exact same position, 2 year relationship.
I'm a very chilled and happy-go-lucky guy, but her constant negativity started to drain me emotionally, eventually something had to give. I felt awfully guilty and sorry for her, but you shouldn't be with someone out of pity.
Onwards and upwards, 2 years later I met the girl of my dreams, and you are 5 years younger than me.
Chin up!
I recently came out of a similar relationship.
She brought me down so much and a lot of the time she seemed to be doing it on purpose.
But once you get over the initial feelings, you will soon feel a weight lifted off your shoulders.
It also means that my money I would spend with her, is now accumulating quite quick and I am hoping to get away on some travels
As others have said, keep yourself busy and spend time with your mates.
Enjoy the freedom until that next person that blows you away comes along.
She brought me down so much and a lot of the time she seemed to be doing it on purpose.
But once you get over the initial feelings, you will soon feel a weight lifted off your shoulders.
It also means that my money I would spend with her, is now accumulating quite quick and I am hoping to get away on some travels
As others have said, keep yourself busy and spend time with your mates.
Enjoy the freedom until that next person that blows you away comes along.
