PhillyDee, you seem to be in quite a rush and looking at things in a very short-term way. Most people buying homes (especially now) would be looking at saving hard for a good few years to get the deposit required. I'm amazed you've actually looked at houses without even knowing the inside-out of how you pay for one (re. deposit required etc.)
I don't mean this in a nasty way, and maybe buying an 110k house up north is not as big a deal as buying a 250k flat in the south-east, but it seems to be you need to grow up a bit. You're in dream world. There is no magic solution with this. Buying a house is the biggest decision you will ever make in your life. Ever. So, you either live at home and save more, or rent together and save less. There is no other way. That's the real world. Just be thankful houses are a mere 110k where you live. I'll be saving for decades to afford a 2 bed flat in London.
On a sidenote; £250pm on rent is cheap. Where-ever you are in the country. I survived paying £450pm on minimum wage in London for over a year. I can't fathom people complaining that anything less isn't do-able, especially up north. If you don't think you can afford it you need to have a long hard look at what you're spending.