Need advice getting kicked out

Nate, people were trying to help on here but you didn't seem to want to provide the information that could have helped more.

Either way, good luck.
 
matt0r said:
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I'm currently 28 and staying at home, its not as uncommon as you think. And before anyone jumps in, im not currently on benefits or heroin. lol :D
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Yeah I live at home because I cant afford to move out yet but I have my savings.. I work :P

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look at his previous posts, he has friends. He spends money... meh I cant help but think its a troll sorry :(
 
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Frenzy said:
Yeah I live at home because I cant afford to move out yet but I have my savings.. I work :P

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look at his previous posts, he has friends. He spends money... meh I cant help but think its a troll sorry :(
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I'm not going to go into my circumstances to be honest, thread derailment and all that.

An odd thing to troll with id say. I tend (on here anyway) to give people the benefit of the doubt. This guy could need telling in terms of his problems and there are plenty of people on her who would/could do that. If he's legit i wish him well.


[TW]Fox;18761876 said:
I think his point was that in combination with having no money - the reason most people stay at home is to build up a decent amount of cash before moving out.
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oh ofc, but we're all just speculating here as covered he gave us nothing to go on.
 
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Been in this situatuion myself, when i was about 18 my Mum and Dad chucked me out for basically being a lazy bum and not working (no drugs or anything), spent 1 night in a friends car then my Nan and Grandad took me in, best thing that happened to me, within 6 months i was working full time in the computer industry and within 10 months was living back home.

It might feel cruddy now but may end up being a good thing, good luck.
 
I think the main problem here is that GD isn't exactly the most friendly place, in fact it can be quite hostile (Yes I'm well aware that there are plenty of good responses). You just have to look at the first few replies to this thread, if I was in the OPs position I wouldn't exactly feel comfortable divulging the relevant information. There were some people within the thread who genuinely wanted to help but it gets lost amongst the dross. OCUK banter is great but it should be confined to threads that warrant it (Romanian webcam girl etc :)) and I don't think that this was one of those threads.

Anyway to the OP, I hope everything gets sorted.
 
To OP, look on line for a shelter nearby and go there if you really do have no one to stay with.

Ive slept in a friends car before for a few nights when i got kicked out, wasn't nice and wasn't comfortable, then i ended up at a hostel. These were my younger years and i was a bit out of control back then.

Don't walk the streets, especially in town centers they are full of idiots late at night during the week, weekends are even worse.

Keep your wits about you and be safe.

Good luck.
 
steve-h said:
A life of crime is the only way out of this.
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Finally. A sensible suggestion.

OP, see your local drug dealers and tell them you want to work for them. It sounds like you have nothing to lose. Worst case scenario, you end up in jail for a few months. At least you'll have a bed and food in jail.

Do it properly and you could be living in a penthouse suite and driving an M3 within about 12-18 weeks.

Tell your mum to suck herself if she comes crawling back to you.
 
You do come out with some weird **** at times Asim. From multi-coloured penis tales, to Mac 10s in under three minutes, what more can I say :o
 
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I dont understand why you need all the personal details of somone that asked a simple question..

It is absoloutley for your own pleasure and amusement and to put it in modern terms "troll him"

If somone is lying bleeding to death, you try and stop the bleeding you dont start quizzing them about how they did it.

If a tramp asks you for a quid you dont start questioning him why he is homeless, how does he afford to feed his dog... Maybe you do?

If a stunning blonde comes over and starts rubbing herself all over you, you dont ask her where are the hidden cameras are do you ? :O
 
Look at it this way; Getting kicked out is better than Getting kicked in.


You're options as a single male are limited, short term you have the Local Homeless Shelter (get there early as the beds will be taken very quickly) or the local Salvation Army Hostel or if you have at least some money a B&B OR YMCA.

Long term, you need to visit your local council office who will be able to help you source long term accomodation.

What I suggest is that you work it out with your Mum in the short term and arrange something else asap.

Not knowing any real detail it is difficult to give specific advice. Email in trust if you want.
 
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I dont understand why you need all the personal details of somone that asked a simple question..
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It isnt particularly difficult to read some of the posts explaining why basic information would be useful.

The reason dictates what his future choices are.
 
asim18 said:
Finally. A sensible suggestion.

OP, see your local drug dealers and tell them you want to work for them. It sounds like you have nothing to lose. Worst case scenario, you end up in jail for a few months. At least you'll have a bed and food in jail.

Do it properly and you could be living in a penthouse suite and driving an M3 within about 12-18 weeks.

Tell your mum to suck herself if she comes crawling back to you.
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So let's assume for a moment that the OP's life is not the script from a Grand Theft Auto video game. Any other advice?
 
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