Anyone had an affair ?
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"Yeah i might be over-reacting, however if the shoe was on the other foot, with women calling me "sexy" i bet you she would not be happy. Childish or not we don't know what his intentions are taken into account when she mentioned that she was getting married, his response was "dont get married come away with me".
GordyR made some valueable points which i was discussing with him.
GordyR made some valueable points which i was discussing with him.
There's a little more to dave 1983's situation guys. If you read back throughout the thread you'll see that his girlriend has a male friend who texts her all day and messages her all day on facebook calling her sexy. So it's not quite as simple as an off the cuff remark.
Though as I said earlier, I doubt very much wether he has any reason to be concerned and certainly shouldn't be insecure about it. But I see nothing wrong with him expressing to his girlfriend that he feels uncomfortable with this guy friend constantly referring to her in that way. But then... Thats all in how he puts it of course.
Though as I said earlier, I doubt very much wether he has any reason to be concerned and certainly shouldn't be insecure about it. But I see nothing wrong with him expressing to his girlfriend that he feels uncomfortable with this guy friend constantly referring to her in that way. But then... Thats all in how he puts it of course.
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Honestly? What
So if someone walks past her in the street and has a glance, its her fault is it?
All well and good, we would all agree that its odd and a discussion is needed
which is where it goes wrong, like how he has put it
Honestly? What
So if someone walks past her in the street and has a glance, its her fault is it?
No No, this is a different matter, im referring to a male friend. Yes im alittle insecure no denying that at all, at the time i was watching the footie cuddling the baby and i overglanced and saw his message on FB, when she realised that i saw some of the message she quickly tried to hide it, now im not being funny if there was nothing to it when try and hide it?
Probably because she knows you are insecure and didn't want to upset you.
Or there is something more sinister going on, hire the Tefal!
RE the whole calling people 'sexy' and whatever, I call other women 'Love', 'Darling' etc etc. I don't want to jump them, it's just how I address people.
Where do you draw the line? Edit, because of the below. If he's an obvious creepy so and so then fair enough you have cause for concern. Thought he was just a bit of a cheeky chappy, not a creepy crawly.
Takes two, should the woman's partner give her a pounding also?
Where do you draw the line? Edit, because of the below. If he's an obvious creepy so and so then fair enough you have cause for concern. Thought he was just a bit of a cheeky chappy, not a creepy crawly.
Fingers crossed there other half's find out and put you in intensive care.
Takes two, should the woman's partner give her a pounding also?
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Probably because she knows you are insecure and didn't want to upset you.
Or there is something more sinister going on, hire the Tefal!
lol, i trust her..... but he does this quite frequently and is abit of a perv, i can't control who she speaks to or what her male friends say, i should take it as a compliment as she is sexy, but it's the way it comes across from him that makes me question his intentions from what i can remember from the message "hey sexy, how are my two girls"
love, darling etc - terms of endearment
sexy - an opinion on someone's bodily appearance
There is definitely a difference
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Well that sounds a bit bloody dodgy, that is what a husband would say.
love, darling etc - terms of endearment
sexy - an opinion on someone's bodily appearance
There is definitely a difference
Agreed...
I think you are right to feel uncomfortable with it and your girlfriend isn't helping matters. My guess is she just likes the attention a little and there is nothing more to it.
That said though, there's absolutely no reason to suspect her over anything and taking it any further would be an over-reaction. I would let it drop now but just be cautious of this guy.
You've made your point to your missus that you're uncomfortable with it, thats fine... I would be too. But harping on about it would be a mistake.
EDIT: Just seen your post about the 'Hey sexy, how are my two girls' comment. I don't want to encourage any insecurties but that sounds very dodgy to me!
From his point of view not hers... Though it begs the question why is she comfortable with him making remarks like that?
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The frustrating thing about it, there's not really a lot i can do i could tell her how i feel but it would make me look over-protective and that he's "joking" around, but how many pervy single blokes "joke" around calling women sexy, without trying to get something out of it.