When to ask her out ???????

Dicehunter

Dicehunter

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Ok so i was on a date and me and my date got on so well, i mean ive never gotten on with anyone so well in my life, sparks were there, everything, it was awesome.
She said she cant remember when she had such a good time and would love to see me again as soon as possible.
Now we've got more dates arranged but how long should i leave it before actually popping the question "relationship" as i know she wont stay single forever and im a really bad judge of when to ask, i usually do it too soon or too late.
Any help into this is really appreciated ;)
 
4?

There's usually a crunch point where you're doing the whole dating thing and it seems a bit like your in a relationship anyway so the formality is just confirming things... Best to sit back relax and enjoy it to see if it happens

Oh and/or something along the lines of after you have inspected her baked goods ;)
 
godinman said:
Don't say 'How do you feel about entering into a relationship with me'.
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I wouldnt say that just something along the lines of "how about we go out properley" or something along thos lines, its really annoying as the past 3 girlfriends ive had asked me out so all i need to say was yes :p
 
Dates are asked for, relationships grow, they're not a contractual agreement.
You've already done the hard work by the sounds of it.
Enjoy the fruits of you labour :)
 
you've went on one date and already you're thinking 'relationship'???

put the knife back under the bed!!

all joking aside, just wait, have a few more dates, say 3 maybe 4. and keep them well spaced apart and random, don't always fix the dates for a specific night. don't try to overwhelm her. no1 can advise you properly on a forum without knowing your personality and hers. but just tell her from time to time while on dates that you enjoy her company and a few weeks down the road suggest that you'se make it a more formal arrangement.

that's just my opinion :)
 
Surely just go with what feel right. If you think both of you are getting along brilliantly then why not just meet up with her soon and keep things moving forward. You obviously like her so why play waiting games and that sort of crap.
 
DF1986 said:
I know it sounds crazy but you when you know ? i cant really explain it ^^
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Enjoy the buzz fella and I hope it works out for you. It sounds like you've had a good night :)
If it's 'right' then surely you'll just end up seeing more of each other by mutual agreement. I don't think there's a defining line of 'are we going steady', unless you're 16 years old?
 
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