Quite often my friends and I will meet at the pub to have a catch up. As I'm normally driving I don't like to drink and when I do drink something it's normally water as that's my preference over lemonade, orange juice etc or any soft drink.
4 of us, this evening which was a very quiet night at the pub in question although it did have about 10-15 other people in there. My friends bought a few drinks each over the duration of our meet, I had some water which when I initially asked for it was met with a 'tut + ptscchhh + a shrug'.
Eventually the deputy manager I think came over and said:
'If you're not going to buy anything you're going to have to jog on'.
And with that we left. I can understand if it was aimed at me personally as I had not bought anything and am well aware it is a business and not a place for me to come and enjoy (barely) for free. However my friends had bought a few drinks each which would surely see our places 'secured'. Perhaps he just remembered previously I hadn't bought anything and had taken a disliking to me.
They way in which we were spoken to wasn't particularly polite and whilst my friends seem to like it there I never have so gives me more reason to avoid it in future.
It seems a little short sighted to me as we do go there fairly regularly however I will of course me suggesting to my friends that we don't in future.
Is it naive of me to think that if the majority of the group is buying drinks that you are entitled to sit in and enjoy they establishment? Or is it common practice that you must always be buying drinks ever 30/45 minutes? I know this is usually the norm but on a Wednesday night he can't really be expecting people to be drinking heavily?
I await the responses telling me I'm a tight bar-steward for not buying a drink.
4 of us, this evening which was a very quiet night at the pub in question although it did have about 10-15 other people in there. My friends bought a few drinks each over the duration of our meet, I had some water which when I initially asked for it was met with a 'tut + ptscchhh + a shrug'.
Eventually the deputy manager I think came over and said:
'If you're not going to buy anything you're going to have to jog on'.
And with that we left. I can understand if it was aimed at me personally as I had not bought anything and am well aware it is a business and not a place for me to come and enjoy (barely) for free. However my friends had bought a few drinks each which would surely see our places 'secured'. Perhaps he just remembered previously I hadn't bought anything and had taken a disliking to me.
They way in which we were spoken to wasn't particularly polite and whilst my friends seem to like it there I never have so gives me more reason to avoid it in future.
It seems a little short sighted to me as we do go there fairly regularly however I will of course me suggesting to my friends that we don't in future.
Is it naive of me to think that if the majority of the group is buying drinks that you are entitled to sit in and enjoy they establishment? Or is it common practice that you must always be buying drinks ever 30/45 minutes? I know this is usually the norm but on a Wednesday night he can't really be expecting people to be drinking heavily?

I await the responses telling me I'm a tight bar-steward for not buying a drink.