Mum vs grandma falling out - advice

[UncleBob]

Best thing your mum can do is get power of attorney and stick the old bat in a home.

 

[Robbo]

1. Grandma (85) foul lady, very unreasonable, irrational, holds a grudge FOREVER.

Ignore her until she dies.

 

[.Lethal]

stay out of it IMO

And

Ignore her until she dies.

 

[Wicksta]

It's time to send nan to Dignitas.

 

[NeoReloaded]

Poison the rotten old cow!

 

[mejinks]

Try working in a geriatric department, she will seem the loveliest person ever lol.

Older people do go like this and its best to treat them like a child. Leave her alone and she will take a month or two to realise she is truly alone. She will have to hold out an olive branch sooner or later. Just be there for her and your mum.

Then rinse and repeat until she dies.

 

[b.cummins]

Ignore her until she dies.

I saw your response.. Having ruled out dementia, I think this is probably the most solid advice you'll get from here. I'm sure she had a rough ride, as do a lot of people. Doesn't excuse such an ill nature, unless of course it turns you into a sociopath in which case you don't need excusing..

 

[Dirk]

Eastenders, GD Edition.

Go down the pub and ignore them all.

 

[Fuzz]

Let her wither away and die a lonely miserable old goat.

Then go and collect the winnings.

 

[Zip]

What you need is the help of Jerry Springer

 

[Menthis]

stay out of it IMO

 

[vicisthebest]

What you need is the help of Jerry Springer

Yes but then the story would be:

My mum IS my grandma, has a multiple personality disorder and has fallen out with herself

 

[bushmins]

All depends on air velocity and resistance. Im guessing you were going to push them out of the Lancaster bomber at the wedding today?

Sorry i only read the title.

 

[EdwardTeach]

You should both cut her off completely.

 

[Supernaut91]

Talk to her and try and compromise, maybe make some sort of resolutions for her. If she does not comply, cut her off.