Ever get caught on a dating site?

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J-FRO

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I know their is a thread about online dating already, but this is just a more generic question about it.

I was just on the BBC website and read an article about maritalaffair.co.uk and it got me thinking, has anyone ever had a friend/partner/family member come accross their profile on one of these online dating sites and if so, what happened?

Maritalaffair.co.uk itself is pretty much self explanatory, but what if you go on their thinking "might see where this leads" and find that your partner is on there? Or if the roles were reversed?

Just seems bizarre to me that people would risk their relationships like that so publicly.
 
I think it's pretty grim that there's obviously enough demand (and plenty of people with low morals) out there to justify the existence of the aforementioned site. Get divorced first FGS! :(
 
Haha no, I'm too scared to sign up to browse incase I get caught or see something I don't want to! :eek:
 
I can just imagine how entertaining it'd be to sign up with a fake name, only to find that your mum was registered on there in the hope of organising a gang bang with John Terry and his mates.
 
Yes, I was unhappy in my relationship and just signed up to see what was out there.

Yes we did try talking before hand and nothing got any better so....
 
franco_22 said:
Maybe their husbands aren't giving them enough attention at home? Their fault to be honest.
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Maybe because the husband is out working hard to bring the money home to support the family? Perfect justification for a wife bored in the daytime to go get jiggy one someone else's Mr Biggy.
 
franco_22 said:
Maybe their husbands are giving them enough attention at home? Their fault to be honest.
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I'm not saying it's right to have an affair, I'm totally against the idea however I know a few people who have had one and their main things for having an affair and not breaking up was...

Grass is always greener, one of them had one and it has made their relationship stronger.
Don't want to lose home etc - an affair can fizzle out and then your on your own, losing house etc etc
Not happy in marriage and don't want to effect the kids.

Like I said I don't agree with it but there are many reasons for it. Like you said you got to look at the route of the cause.
 
My mate had split up from my girlfriend but they were still living together, he was on match, and quite liked the sound of the profile but the girl had no picture, he sent an introduction off to her but never got a response.

A few days later he was on his pc and went onto match, it had signed automatically into the profile he sent the message to, his girlfriend had signed up and he had inadvertedly sent an email to her, nothing was ever mentioned, but after he looked at the profile again he could see it was her and she was quite bitter, talking about how her long term boyfriend had dumped her and she wasnt sure if she could ever trust another man again but she would try!
 
PianoBasher said:
Maybe because the husband is out working hard to bring the money home to support the family? Perfect justification for a wife bored in the daytime to go get jiggy one someone else's Mr Biggy.
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It's not like that. A lot of men stop talking to their wives, listening to their problems and being sensitive about them. People get used to each other and it's true that we find 99% of a woman's conversation boring as hell. But women are always looking and NEED someone to give them that emotional connection they are not getting at home, you find a guy who gives them that and what happens, happens.

I'm not saying it's right but it's just how people are.
 
franco_22 said:
I'm not saying it's right but it's just how people are.
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Aye I understand, I've just seen a mate go through being cheated on while he was at work, and he was definitely doing all he could to maintain a decent marriage. Some women are just never happy and always want more. ;)

Getting married just seems like a waste of time tbh - you'd think it'd make people work harder at their relationship but in reality, it just makes everything much more messy when it goes wrong. Celebrity culture gives out the impression that a marriage doesn't have to be a "until death us do part" arrangement anymore.
 
I find marriage makes people work less if anything. People get used to each other and also start taking each other for granted. I find people work their hardest at something at the start of a relationship and then it gradually just goes down hill from there :D
 
Wife found me going through 'Russianwives.com' (not signing up - looking at free 'these girls are on it' pics).

It was literally just to see how fit they were out of general interest because I was bored. She's trusting, and believed the truth.
 
britboy4321 said:
Wife found me going through 'Russianwives.com' (after signing up - looking at free 'these girls are on it' pics).

It was literally just to see how fit they were out of general interest because I was bored. She's gullible, and believed the deceit.
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Aren't you worried she'll come across your post here and discover your lies?

Edit: it just occurred to me that you might not realise I'm joking - Jack Russells.
 
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