That's very true and it's the same woman too, I've NEVER EVER got angry with my own receptionist. She is polite and says " Hello Neil " sometimes when i go down there. Makes me happy and i can sort things out, but this woman wouldn't give me the time of day as soon as i picked up the phone and said HI. A polite " If you phone tomorrow, we will do our upmost to get you an appointment " would've made a BIG difference.
Just maybe if people did not get abused so much then they would not need to put the defences up. Sure some of them start of as little Hitlers but most people with this attitude are made that way.