Just something that I occasionally wonder about in terms of, what most people would be able to say in response to this. Fairly simple question to ask, and perhaps fairly simple for some people to answer. I imagine for others though, it's perhaps a little trickier to answer.
For those of you who are married or with the person you're going to marry, would you say they are the perfect person for you and you are undeniably compatible on all levels, they are the person you fantasised about being with even before you knew them. They're your soul mate and you would be lost without them.
- or would you say that you've accepted reality, seen all there is to see, and chosen the person you're with as you are very compatible and realistically, they are as close a match as you think you would ever find. You perhaps wouldn't describe them as your fantasy partner could you choose anyone, but you get on well enough that it works, and you enjoy one anothers company, and will do for the rest of your lifetime, hence why you're together.
For those of you who are currently in relationships which are fairly new, or perhaps only a couple years old, would you say this person isn't someone you'd describe as your dream woman(or man), but you get on well, find them attractive and so are taking the relationship as it comes but don't know if you would want to spend the rest of your life with that person.
-or is this person all you think about every waking moment, your dream woman (or man), your soul mate, there is nobody else in the world who could compare, you hope the relationship lasts and that ultimately hope that you will marry them?
For those of you who are married or with the person you're going to marry, would you say they are the perfect person for you and you are undeniably compatible on all levels, they are the person you fantasised about being with even before you knew them. They're your soul mate and you would be lost without them.
- or would you say that you've accepted reality, seen all there is to see, and chosen the person you're with as you are very compatible and realistically, they are as close a match as you think you would ever find. You perhaps wouldn't describe them as your fantasy partner could you choose anyone, but you get on well enough that it works, and you enjoy one anothers company, and will do for the rest of your lifetime, hence why you're together.
For those of you who are currently in relationships which are fairly new, or perhaps only a couple years old, would you say this person isn't someone you'd describe as your dream woman(or man), but you get on well, find them attractive and so are taking the relationship as it comes but don't know if you would want to spend the rest of your life with that person.
-or is this person all you think about every waking moment, your dream woman (or man), your soul mate, there is nobody else in the world who could compare, you hope the relationship lasts and that ultimately hope that you will marry them?
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) , but no, she isnt the perfect person for me and we arent undeniably compatible on all levels. There are things I would change about her and I'm certain there are things she would change about me. I imagine if someone was waiting for their perfect person they might find themselves waiting forever and end up with nobody. I think you fall in love with someone, and part of that love is both the bits that dont match up and the bits that do match up.
