Moving back in with parents

I moved back in with my dad for coming up to a year now after renting for two years. I was saving while renting but not as fast as I have been able to living at home (obviously). I'm in the process of buying a place at the moment and he has been a big help really.

I have had enough now though and need my own space again. How long would you have to spend back at home? As a couple I think its far more complicated! The whole dynamic will change with her parents about.
 
I would, if its going to let you save a lot more than you are now, why wouldn't you do it.

IF you still have your Independence at your parents and they don't treat you like a 10 year old then i cant see the problem really.
 
No chance. Wouldn't do it.

I'd look at other options first, government schemes, cutting down on things, second job before even contemplating moving back. And I get on great with my parents.
 
yes - needs must. either struggle for years or get it done quickly.

it's good you're on good terms and you have the option in the first place but just make sure you set some ground rules to help things flow like no walking in on the you when you're nekkid. ;)

wish i was back at my mums.... i don't much like cooking....:p
 
challengedavid said:
all depends if you can get on with them
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I think that's the key thing, that and how much space they'll give you.

If you get on well with them, and they are ok with it, and you aren't going to be too cramped for space it's possibly a good idea, as all parties can gain an advantage from it potentially (if you help with the bills, housework etc whilst there).
 
Not a chance in hell. Renting isn't as bad as some people think, if you have good landlords. I quite like not worrying about fixing stuff, and I know if I could afford anywhere it wouldn't be a patch on the house I rent.
 
lol, we done this about 10 years ago for the exact same reason
and........
it wasnt that bad, if you get on well with your folks i see no reason why its a bad idea
and
its for good cause

we are glad we did it, now i have my 4 bedroom house with enclosed rear garden, summer house, and all the other bits i want for our own house
 
Did it when I came back from Australia, had no money and no job so not much option. Been back 2.5 years and looking to buy a flat now, saved 20K in that time.
 
Depends if you can go without bedroom activities while living there. As it would be weird with someones parents in the same building lol.
 
neil3k said:
hi,

me and my missus are thinking of moving back in with her folks to allow us to save for a deposit quicker.

we currently rent but with bills etc we arent managing to save a lot.

would anyone else consider this?
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I did it a couple of years ago, I was quite happy, my missus was not, three unhappy months and once we moved into our new place we didnt last long after that, we split after two months in our new house, 17 years down the drain.

Be warned, If i had to do it again, Id move to her parents as I would rather she more comfortable than I.
 
I reckon all the people saying no still with their parents. :p

Nothing wrong with it at all, makes financial sense, just be sure not to allow your parents to start looking after you again otherwise you'll get mad quickly.
 
Just make sure you do save, my sister-in-law talked her husband into staying at her mums last year, they've saved up very little despite having a huge amount off income that could be saved each month. It's all gone on extra holidays and "treats" for both of them.

If you genuinely think you can both have the fiscal discipline to stick with saving then yeah go for it, if you have doubts I suggest you agree a minimum saving each month with a little "treat" money for when you need a break from her folks.
 
If you and the missus get on with your parents and they have the space, do it.

I bought a house and left home 11 years ago, but I'd easily move back - house in the country with tons of space (still have my own room), always stocked with food and my folks are cool. Not sure my missus would go for the idea though :D

Seriously though, if you feel it's a genuinely workable solution all-round and you stick to your savings plan, it'll give your deposit the kick start it needs.
 
we do

her mums ace and her dad's pleasant enough. Going to have to put all our furniture in storage though :(

we are both on mid 20's so we should have a deposit in under a year.

wish us luck
 
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