A little bit of advice please?

Trust me - the last thing you want in fresher's week is a crap relationship holding you back ;). Free yourself immediately. Come uni you wont look back.
 
man up ;) i know it feels bad but you got a lot more pasty to smash before a girl means the "world to you" etc etc etc

basically go on holiday have a good time ignore her if you feel like it ;) get back and money won't be wasted and be done with it :P ask her to go as friends that would be the best.. but dump her nicely before that of course.. shes asking for it anyways
 
You're young mate (i assume as exams are being mentioned) so just let this one go. The exams could be causing her stress, i guess each person handles them in different ways but is it really worth getting yourself down over this.
Unfortunately you are probably a bit screwed with the holiday money but its a lesson learned..........never let a woman have your money until you're married, then you have no choice :(
 
Dunks said:
If you go on holiday, don't go with her as friends, it just won't work and is asking for trouble.
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how is that? :) its the same as ignoring her except that she won't have a leg to stand on because you're not together anymore.. :)
 
grudas said:
how is that? :) its the same as ignoring her except that she won't have a leg to stand on because you're not together anymore.. :)
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He's clearly in love with this girl, breaking up with her then going on holiday with her as friends isn't going to work out with him very well :p
 
Dunks said:
Stop smothering her, and lighten up with the :( faces.

No wonder she's distant.
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I was going to point this out, but he's young and it's only natural to do this when you're starting out.

Live and learn; don't be a doormat etc.
 
Sounds like a *****, from your text in the OP you've clearly been concerned for a number of days and her unwillingness to communicate has not helped at all.

Cancel her spa thing (if she doesn't know about it), get yourself prepared to break up with her (because it sounds like she wants to), then talk to her about the holiday (you should NOT go together if you do break up) and what's happening with that (see if she'd be willing for another of your mates to buy out her share of the holiday or something?).


Chin up. :)
 
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To be honest although you do seem concerned it does look like your smothering her. Constantly talking when not getting a response. I bet theirs more than just them messages there as well.

She doesnt seem to be interest at the moment and granted it could be to do with the exams but more than likely she will have just lost feelings for you. This "break" is just for her to see if she prefers the no texts etc of the boyfriend and can manage to be single.

I wouldnt cancel the holiday or anything though. Still go. It will be a nice break for you and it shouldnt be you who has to kop out because of something she doesnt want. If she says she has a mate argue you paid and that you refuse to get the name changed. If she goes she might realise she still likes you (highly doubtful) or you might just get a weeks worth of break up sex :D

I had a relationship few years back were it became a little distant before we broke up. Unfortunately or I should really say fortunately, I went away for a week with college to Spain. This meant no constant texting, ringing, seeing her all the time. Spoke a few times but a week after I got back we broke up. We realised that it just wasnt working and both admitted that before the holiday we had both felt the same way and that week showed we didnt really need each other as much as we thought we did. Being young and all that.

Had a good break up and she has been with her new boyfriend 2 years just gone. We still get along and talk and I get on ok with her new boyfriend as well. (In the marines so wouldnt want to **** him off either :p)
 
J4K3 M said:
To be honest although you do seem concerned it does look like your smothering her. Constantly talking when not getting a response. I bet theirs more than just them messages there as well.
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I think if I was being ignored by my partner I would want to know what is going on.

Replying by threatening to leave during exam time is just laughable.

But of course there is more to it than OP has said.
 
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