Happy Birthday to my big sister - Miss you

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Today is my big sisters birthday, she died when I was younger, unfortunately took her own life :(. It's hard that I am not local to her resting place anymore, I moved away, but still see her, just wish she was closer to home so I could visit her any time I wanted.

Thoughts today are with my sister, and to anyone who has lost a member of family, or friend through this way.
 
It was quite difficult to take in when I was young, I can't really recall some memories :( wish I had more of the happy times
 
Gosh I can't even begin to imagine the torment of my sister taking her own life :(

My thoughts are with you and others that have suffered similar heartache. :(
 
I lost my step dad when i was 13 to suicide. He may aswell of been my dad as he bought me up from the age of 5-13. He left his 8 month year old son behind (hes 13 now) and i wish he never did it.
 
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Not nice to read you have trouble with her resting place not being close, I hardly ever visit resting places of people I knew as it doesn't really 'help me' or make me happy, the times I went I always left sadder than when I arrived.

Now I mostly hang on to the memories I had with them, I wish you strength for the future.
 
Not nice to read you have trouble with her resting place not being close, I hardly ever visit resting places of people I knew as it doesn't really 'help me' or make me happy, the times I went I always left sadder than when I arrived.

Now I mostly hang on to the memories I had with them, I wish you strength for the future.

I don't know how different people cope with it, some may find it helps to cling on to the memories, whereas other people could find it comforting to know they are close if they need to go and have some "time" with them and to maintain the area

I dont know, its hard to explain
 
Happy birthday to your sister. I hope you have good memories of her, cherish them however near or far you are from her, as she will always be with you.
 
/hug

I've lost people, I know that words can't really sum up how you feel on days like today. So have a hug.
 
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