A decent human being would show some compassion and just give it back.
£250 is a huge amount of money to some people and the simple fact is it hasn't cost you £250 for being messed around for the sake of one night. If it has cost you anything then deduct it and explain why. Do the right thing and don't follow the money grabbing nature of some of the people in here.
A decent human being would have some clue why he was handing over £250. Also if £250 was a huge amount of money to them they wouldn't or shouldn't be buying an LCR. The insurance thing sounds like a load of bull. Who looks at a performance car without at least some idea of the insurance costs?!
The OP mentioned that he knows the guy off of some forum, I'll put a fiver on him posting about his new *insert expensive to insure* car within a few months.
It isn't about money grabbing or doing the decent thing. Handing over a deposit is effectively your agreement to the sale, the reason it isn't the full amount is that you can, if you wish, change your mind BUT it comes at the expense of what you've already handed over.
Those that expect money to just go back and forth without any consequence really shouldn't look at buying a house in the near future
