Not too sure how to deal with this, neither does my girlfriend. Basically she’s 5 months pregnant – not something we’d planned however its now happened and we are actually quite pleased as even though we’ve not been together all that long we seem to be doing a decent job of making a nice life with each other.
We live together, its quite cosy and nothing over the top. Cheap affordable rent, low council tax basic outgoings and my wage does comfortably cover our living costs however she works as a full time cleaner, however has been slowly since learning about being pregnant been trying to reduce some of the hours, not to much success it must be said. The cleaning contract she has with a domestic cleaning firm is for 37.5 hours, and ok since falling pregnant she has taken a number of days off sick, due to being totally fatigued. Its hard work cleaning, some of the houses have been reported to me by her as being complete messes, and require hard work, and lets face it, being pregnant is hard on any woman..!! Can’t expect her to keep up 37.5 hours of cleaning a week, totally un-reasonable. And not safe for baby and I’m worried about her.
We both discussed that maybe it would be better to try and drop some hours off, but she wants to try and make it till she can take three months maternity leave, she’ll quit after the leave anyhow. We just wanted the three months wage coming in, as she and neither do I see any point in working for min hourly wage once the baby is born. I can support us all on my wage, I’m in a fortunate position to do this – thankfully.
However, now its starting to get to the point where she’s getting pains down her sides form the cleaning work, and is coming home stressed, worried and tired, so decided to tell the cleaning contractors that she’s pregnant and what options does she have. They’ve decided to let her go, so now she has no job at all. They state being pregnant isn’t productive to their core business and there is no work for her, basically she’s been laid off.
I’m more of a principle man, as to be honest pleased she’s not working, cleaning someone else’s home and risking our baby for min hourly wage just doesn’t seem right to me. However I just don’t see how it’s fair to effectively sack someone due to being pregnant..?? It’s a bit of rock and a hard place. She was employed, but I do kind of see how the work isn’t suitable for a pregnant woman. Don’t get me wrong, I’m sure she’s perfectly fine if its moderate work, but some of the cleans aren’t and this is the issue..
I don’t know the legal standings, but surely they should have offered her part time work, even allowed her to work if she wanted till maternity leave could be taken?
Maybe someone on this forum can advise?
Me personally at 5 months pregnant then cleaning work maybe isn’t suitable, but getting the push sounds like they didn’t want to pay maternity leave and used it as a way to sack a hard working person, just because they are expecting in the next 4 months.. So unfair….!! ‘just looking for viewpoints. No lazy cow, or deal with it comments, or you did the deed live with it comments…. Just looking for constructive comments on what anyone thinks of this..
Thanks..
We live together, its quite cosy and nothing over the top. Cheap affordable rent, low council tax basic outgoings and my wage does comfortably cover our living costs however she works as a full time cleaner, however has been slowly since learning about being pregnant been trying to reduce some of the hours, not to much success it must be said. The cleaning contract she has with a domestic cleaning firm is for 37.5 hours, and ok since falling pregnant she has taken a number of days off sick, due to being totally fatigued. Its hard work cleaning, some of the houses have been reported to me by her as being complete messes, and require hard work, and lets face it, being pregnant is hard on any woman..!! Can’t expect her to keep up 37.5 hours of cleaning a week, totally un-reasonable. And not safe for baby and I’m worried about her.
We both discussed that maybe it would be better to try and drop some hours off, but she wants to try and make it till she can take three months maternity leave, she’ll quit after the leave anyhow. We just wanted the three months wage coming in, as she and neither do I see any point in working for min hourly wage once the baby is born. I can support us all on my wage, I’m in a fortunate position to do this – thankfully.
However, now its starting to get to the point where she’s getting pains down her sides form the cleaning work, and is coming home stressed, worried and tired, so decided to tell the cleaning contractors that she’s pregnant and what options does she have. They’ve decided to let her go, so now she has no job at all. They state being pregnant isn’t productive to their core business and there is no work for her, basically she’s been laid off.
I’m more of a principle man, as to be honest pleased she’s not working, cleaning someone else’s home and risking our baby for min hourly wage just doesn’t seem right to me. However I just don’t see how it’s fair to effectively sack someone due to being pregnant..?? It’s a bit of rock and a hard place. She was employed, but I do kind of see how the work isn’t suitable for a pregnant woman. Don’t get me wrong, I’m sure she’s perfectly fine if its moderate work, but some of the cleans aren’t and this is the issue..
I don’t know the legal standings, but surely they should have offered her part time work, even allowed her to work if she wanted till maternity leave could be taken?
Maybe someone on this forum can advise?
Me personally at 5 months pregnant then cleaning work maybe isn’t suitable, but getting the push sounds like they didn’t want to pay maternity leave and used it as a way to sack a hard working person, just because they are expecting in the next 4 months.. So unfair….!! ‘just looking for viewpoints. No lazy cow, or deal with it comments, or you did the deed live with it comments…. Just looking for constructive comments on what anyone thinks of this..
Thanks..