At one point she called me a racist (lol)

Ha I'm in the same situation at the moment, a bit too similar for my liking..

I've never shared with anyone who I didn't know beforehand so this is shaping up to be quite an experience, sounds like I should steer clear if live-in landlords then!
 
I got bored of this post about a third of the way through and stopped reading. Thats impressive that is, you should consider writing an epic teen fantasy novel about vampires.
 
Ha I'm in the same situation at the moment, a bit too similar for my liking..

I've never shared with anyone who I didn't know beforehand so this is shaping up to be quite an experience, sounds like I should steer clear if live-in landlords then!

Normal houseshare = Democracy
LIL = Dictatorship

;)
 
I'm disapointed with this thread.

I expected you to claim that you were not racist after clearly making a racist comment, and then everyone would flame you.

But you didn't.
 
1. I'm confused
2. You're ready to rent a home with someone that is your semi-ex?
Does this not ring alarm bells of instability in the relationship, could swing either way, you could be left with paying £600-700 pcm if things turn for the worst (hope not but got to bear that in mind)
 
1. I'm confused
2. You're ready to rent a home with someone that is your semi-ex?
Does this not ring alarm bells of instability in the relationship, could swing either way, you could be left with paying £600-700 pcm if things turn for the worst (hope not but got to bear that in mind)

Not quite, his semi-ex is a live in landlord, but he wants to move in to a flat where there are no live in landlords. She has got offended by that and called him racist.

She needs a good ****punt if you ask me !!
 
saying i do not want to live with black people because they smell might be racist, but but what you have above is just a silly bint, who needs to be fully-ex, rather than semi.
 
The girl is utterly utterly stupid. Wanting to rent your own place or live with a live-in landlord is completely personal preference. Choosing the former is in no way whatsoever some kind of attack on live-in landlords! Wtf? I'd suggest you'd be better off making someone like that a full-ex.
 
Semi ex? Be a man and sack her off then :)

it's our first argument to be fair so I'm not going to judge her on this - but it did annoy me when I know she's just going to go and complain to her friends about it. I think that's the thing that bothers me about it - hopefully her friends will can see it from an unbiased view

on a side note - cheers for the comments, I needed to hear all this - I was laughing last night out of desperation and hope that she would understand but now it's more "yeah she's being stupid - move along" :)

thanks
 
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ahh ok no worries. We've had it advertised on the gummytree, spareroom and flatmate sites but no interest so far. another 3 weeks and we're gonna have to pay the excess rent. Ouch
 
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