Just because BF3 plays in the 30s and 15's on the 2GB and 1GB versions does not mean that other games wont be playing in the 60's 45's on the 2GB and 1GB versions and that you can use a higher setting in a given game on the 2GB version.
That had already happened to me way back when Race driver Grid came out, so yes it can make the dereference between playable and unplayable depending on the game.
Okay then. Show me a benchmark which proves this. I don't have a dog in this race. I've just never seen any proof of what you're saying.