How bad is your social life ?

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Do you have lots of friends and know a lot of people in your life or are you a hermit and have nobody in your life ?
 
I have few, but very good, friends.

The rest are acquaintances who I'm civil to for I have no reason to be otherwise. I don't ring them to go to the pub etc. though.
 
I have no friends. I grew up in south africa and i had a group of friends there and new lots of people from school. But now i live in romford and i don't know anyone.

I had to recently complete a security watchdog form and one of the questions was references for 5 years and 10 years and i do not know anyone for longer than 5 years that is not family.

Last time i went out with friends that was not from work or with my sister and her friends was many years ago.

Don't even get me started on women, that is even worse...
 
groen said:
I have no friends. I grew up in south africa and i had a group of friends there and new lots of people from school. But now i live in romford and i don't know anyone.

I had to recently complete a security watchdog form and one of the questions was references for 5 years and 10 years and i do not know anyone for longer than 5 years that is not family.

Last time i went out with friends that was not from work or with my sister and her friends was many years ago.

Don't even get me started on women, that is even worse...
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Change your situation then? It's tough moving around, I know this first hand, but it can be done. :)
 
very few very good friends, lots of acquaintances though, only 1 single person who knows everything about me, it's not likely to change either :D
 
I am not that bothered about it. I started going to festivals when i was 15 and spent the next 8-10 years going out a lot and having a good time. Now i am 27 and don't want to go to clubs.

When i used to live in a shared house then we used to have house parties and bbq and have 20-30 people around, none of them my friends. But i used to go out once or twice with my housemates and that was alright. Now i live by myself i never go out. Only time i go out now and socialise is with work or with my family. I have no interest in going out by myself and trying to make friends. Sometimes i think about going out to listen to some music some where because i miss loud music. But it is not the same going by yourself.

I don't stress about it though, don't realy mind that much.

I am only to blame because i never let people get close, i never want to make any friends and even when i spend a long time with people, like my housemates, we got pretty close. i just never contact them when they leave etc.
 
Seraph said:
very few very good friends, lots of acquaintances though, only 1 single person who knows everything about me, it's not likely to change either :D
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This, but i'm waiting to go into the RAF so it will be changing :P All my mates bar 2 went to uni and never really kept in contact :O Doesn't bother me though, I enjoy talking to one of my mates on skype a lot and goin to the pub and meeting the other 2. 2 local pubs = lot of acquaintances too.
 
I think the older you get the less friends you will have but the ones you do have will be really close...nothing to worry about its just the type of world we live in.
 
I have one best friend that I see as a brother, a small group of very good friends that I will do anything for and am 100% loyal to, a larger group of good friends that I feel at ease with and am happy to share my life with, a much larger group of 'friends' that are basically acquaintances that I don't really care for very much, and then a completely separate group of sex objects.

I suppose I have quite a lot of friends if you include all, but it shrinks very rapidly (to around 30) if you exclude the acquaintances block. I think my social life is pretty good as I can cool it off or up the ante depending on how I feel that day/week/month.
 
I have a couple of better friends - the people I'd be more comfortable sharing info with
Maybe a few more good friends - people I'd invite out etc...
Acquaintances - plenty.

I guess putting it into perspective I created my Bday event today, and invited 14 people. You could probably add another 5-10 to that from home that I knew wouldn't be able to make it so didn't bother inviting...

kd
 
I had a very good social life it's taken a great hit as of late however due to sorting out mah new house I've had no time off for social gatherings or other frivolous activities which sucks ****!
 
I have started once a week to goto the pub with a couple of mates that I had lost touch with.

Other than that, I had an online social life, which when SW:TOR comes out will be more active
 
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