Ever been in a relationship with a woman, where she was treated badly previously?

Dickyb0b · 10 Dec 2011 at 10:38

Basically i am in a new relationship with this girl and she has told me all about the previous guy she was with , should i go and talk to him about how he has treated her? or could she be lying?, also she said she wanted to get pregnant with him and start a family but he has failed to make her pregnant that's why she so unhappy..do men normally fail to get a women pregnant and expect to stay with her?

Spokwiththeears · 10 Dec 2011 at 10:39

oh lord

godinman · 10 Dec 2011 at 10:40

Ever been in a relationship with a women

This is OCUK, I think the answer for about 80% of people is, "No.".

Also, get out of there.

HangTime · 10 Dec 2011 at 10:40

Dickyb0b said:
do men normally fail to get a women pregnant and expect to stay with her?

Yes. Relationships (in modern society) usually start on the basis of more than just procreation.

Logsi · 10 Dec 2011 at 10:41

peige · 10 Dec 2011 at 10:42

Zip up and get out.

Tekgun · 10 Dec 2011 at 10:45

Hide any rabbits and GTFO.

kokuten · 10 Dec 2011 at 10:45

godinman · 10 Dec 2011 at 10:46

On second thoughts, aren't abused women easier to talk into doing naughty things due to their lack of self esteem etc?

Jay794 · 10 Dec 2011 at 10:46

If she was treated bad in a previous relationship you need to convince her that you're different

metbandit1 · 10 Dec 2011 at 10:46

this ^ edit: not this, but jackie chan photo

Also, run for your life.

Dickyb0b · 10 Dec 2011 at 10:47

you really have to wonder what goes on behind closed doors in this world.

AtreuS · 10 Dec 2011 at 10:47

I have just ended a 6month relationship with a girl who had 4 abusive partners before me. She had been raped, sold ( im not kidding ) and nearly killed twice.

She was lovely but i simply could not erase the past and sadly it had made her very distrustful, suspicious and jealous to the point of being accused of seeing someone else because i was "at least 20mins too long" when getting a take out.

No matter how you feel emotionally about someone you simply cannot live like that, with constant arguements about something that is made up in someones head.

Just be cautious and understand that someone who has been abused in the past can be for ever altered. Hopefully in your case not the point where my partner was.

Dickyb0b · 10 Dec 2011 at 10:50

Are all men really this secretive and thible or what?, yeh man the truth comes out in the end as just wtf has been going on,that's when you get some revenge for her

King Damager · 10 Dec 2011 at 10:50

Even my gf who I just told this to just said the first response was RUN!

kd

DiscoDave · 10 Dec 2011 at 10:52

Don't dig into the past; it's only going to resurface bad emotions/feelings/memories for your girlfriend. If you care about this woman then simply strive not to be like this ex of hers.

Jono8 · 10 Dec 2011 at 10:56

haha its the seri0ns guy.

paulh · 10 Dec 2011 at 10:57

Logsi said:
RUN!

peige said:
Zip up and get out.

Tekgun said:
Hide any rabbits and GTFO.

Also Pics!!!

Nash · 10 Dec 2011 at 10:59

AtreuS said:
I have just ended a 6month relationship with a girl who had 4 abusive partners before me. She had been raped, sold ( im not kidding ) and nearly killed twice.

She was lovely but i simply could not erase the past and sadly it had made her very distrustful, suspicious and jealous to the point of being accused of seeing someone else because i was "at least 20mins too long" when getting a take out.

No matter how you feel emotionally about someone you simply cannot live like that, with constant arguements about something that is made up in someones head.

Just be cautious and understand that someone who has been abused in the past can be for ever altered. Hopefully in your case not the point where my partner was.

That sounds bad, man. Was it in this country? Hard to imagine people being sold in this day and age.

Hades · 10 Dec 2011 at 11:00

Don't trust her if she says she's on the pill.