Ever been in a relationship with a woman, where she was treated badly previously?

Robosapien · 10 Dec 2011 at 13:09

RationalGaze said:
I was hoping he just meant emotionally

Well, there's that too actually. Grim thread is grim though.

MeEsH BaKkA · 10 Dec 2011 at 13:11

Dickyb0b said:
Basically i am in a new relationship with this girl and she has told me all about the previous guy she was with , should i go and talk to him about how he has treated her? or could she be lying?, also she said she wanted to get pregnant with him and start a family but he has failed to make her pregnant that's why she so unhappy..do men normally fail to get a women pregnant and expect to stay with her?

Trust me mate, she sounds like a total nutter. Bail.

stiv121 · 10 Dec 2011 at 13:21

Pull out and get out before its too late!!

AGD · 10 Dec 2011 at 14:01

stiv121 said:
Pull out and get out before its too late!!

+1

She sounds like a mentalist tbh.

Conscript · 10 Dec 2011 at 14:05

Yup. In one now.

Paul11 · 10 Dec 2011 at 14:09

yes you should go round and talk to her previous boyfriend, and bring up why he failed to get her pregnant ..

disclaimer / this is sarcasm btw /

i would not get involved in any of her previous relationships.

icedbullet · 10 Dec 2011 at 14:21

Dickyb0b said:
Basically i am in a new relationship with this girl and she has told me all about the previous guy she was with , should i go and talk to him about how he has treated her? or could she be lying?, also she said she wanted to get pregnant with him and start a family but he has failed to make her pregnant that's why she so unhappy..do men normally fail to get a women pregnant and expect to stay with her?

I fail to see what you would gain by talking to her ex about his inability to keep a woman happy and his probable infertility.

Unless you plan to kick his *** in front of her to certify your alpha status, leave it alone.

trigger-happy · 10 Dec 2011 at 14:22

lol @ this thread.

Xandos · 10 Dec 2011 at 14:35

Get a vasectomy or run!

Also, don't be surprised when she starts asking you for violent sex etc.

icedbullet · 10 Dec 2011 at 14:44

Xandos said:
Get a vasectomy or run!

Also, don't be surprised when she starts asking you for violent sex etc.

4T5 · 10 Dec 2011 at 14:45

Have sex with her then break up, It's what she's used to.

Xandos · 10 Dec 2011 at 14:48

Gets a bit old if it's the only way they want it...

Richie · 10 Dec 2011 at 15:02

Dickyb0b said:
Basically i am in a new relationship with this girl and she has told me all about the previous guy she was with , should i go and talk to him about how he has treated her?

Give me strength.... You actually have a need to track down her ex that you don't even know and "speak to him about the way he treated her"?

Ok, I'll play along. Run me through how the situation will develop when you have found him and you and him are now physically face to face.... You have some vision in your head where you are the big hero and, after "talking" to him about it, everyone will pat you on the back and say "well done big man", dont you? :rolleyes:

WTF goes through people's heads these days. Your 28 FFS, not 14 and in the playground.

Lunatic Dreyfus · 10 Dec 2011 at 15:13

Logsi said:
RUN!

Who? Him, or her.

LabR@t · 10 Dec 2011 at 15:16

walk away.

NeoReloaded · 10 Dec 2011 at 15:16

Richie said:
Give me strength.... You actually have a need to track down her ex that you don't even know and "speak to him about the way he treated her"?

Ok, I'll play along. Run me through how the situation will develop when you have found him and you and him are now physically face to face.... You have some vision in your head where you are the big hero and, after "talking" to him about it, everyone will pat you on the back and say "well done big man", dont you?

WTF goes through people's heads these days. Your 28 FFS, not 14 and in the playground.

Yeah, but how dare he expect to stay with her if he couldn't get her pregnant

Sankari · 10 Dec 2011 at 15:27

Dickyb0b said:
Basically i am in a new relationship with this girl and she has told me all about the previous guy she was with , should i go and talk to him about how he has treated her? or could she be lying?, also she said she wanted to get pregnant with him and start a family but he has failed to make her pregnant that's why she so unhappy..do men normally fail to get a women pregnant and expect to stay with her?

Ideally, the physical distance between you and this woman should be longer than your penis.

At least 1,000km longer, to be on the safe side.

Solomon23 · 10 Dec 2011 at 15:57

And what if you do not live up to her expectations ?? You really want to be the next chapter in her life story......at the very least she requires counselling and professional assistance. At the worst she is manipulative and an emotional vampire.

Stay away from the ex ....its none of your business and either way it will only cause trouble, most likely for you.
Its not normal to go on about an ex failing to make you pregnant......just what you really want to hear from a new girlfreind ??
Find a decent well balanced freind and enjoy a courtship between like minds.
You are obviously a decent sort dont get pulled in .....keep it in your pants till you find someone worth the investment...like the other guy said lock up the bunnies and sharp knives

AberystwythLAD · 10 Dec 2011 at 16:01

Dickyb0b said:
Basically i am in a new relationship with this girl and she has told me all about the previous guy she was with , should i go and talk to him about how he has treated her? or could she be lying?, also she said she wanted to get pregnant with him and start a family but he has failed to make her pregnant that's why she so unhappy..do men normally fail to get a women pregnant and expect to stay with her?

I stopped reading here!

elmarko · 12 Dec 2011 at 15:11

Gackt said:
Unfortunately the kinds of issues she has can't be sorted with a few sweet words, and a hug. She needs professional help. You may think you're helping her out, and in some degree she may heal - but she won't thank you for it, in fact she'll hate you for it. And there's the inevitability that once she's back on her feet somewhat, that'll she leave you.

If you stay with her you're going to be her emotional crutch, and you will find that she will drain you of everything you have.

Refer her to psychiatric help, and then leave.

This.