Ever been in a relationship with a woman, where she was treated badly previously?

sort of on topic, if you get a girl pregnant without knowing/wanting to and she decides to keep it, do you HAVE to have anything to do with it, (financially or otherwise?)
 
sort of on topic, if you get a girl pregnant without knowing/wanting to and she decides to keep it, do you HAVE to have anything to do with it, (financially or otherwise?)

Financially yes if she gets he CSA on the case.
 
I can't tell if this is a joke or not but...

Basically i am in a new relationship with this girl and she has told me all about the previous guy she was with , should i go and talk to him about how he has treated her?
No

could she be lying?
She could be but if you don't fully trust her in the beginning is there any point continuing the relationship? :confused:

also she said she wanted to get pregnant with him and start a family but he has failed to make her pregnant that's why she so unhappy..

I'd be very careful of this.

How long ago did all of this happen? If it's fairly fresh my advice would be not to get involved. If it is all true she needs time alone to sort herself out and perhaps seek professional help.
If she's feeling very unhappy I don't think it's wise that she starts a new relationship as it will end up being for the wrong reasons.


p.s - We aren't all damaged and cheap. What doesn't kill you only makes you stronger.
 
A lot of women have been in abusive relationships and this may or may not be a bad thing depending on the girl, they may have some trust issues, may take a little longer to form a strong relationship as they are cautious from previous relationships.

As long as they don't have too many underlying problems that will effect your relationship moving forwards and they are open and honest then I would accept this if she was worth the trouble.

If she is dramatically untrusting, needy, low self esteem etc then I would not want to be in a relationship with them and tell them they need more time to sort their heads out as you understand the issue but its unfair on you.

There is no point in getting involved about the previous relationship, its over and there is no point in bringing things up and getting involved when its none of your business and likely to do no good at all.

The main thing to consider here is that she seems to have left him as she is desperate for a child. whilst having a child is obviously the ultimate goal in a relationship and also the goal of life it may not be something you are looking for in the short term which will directly conflict with her desires.

The above combined with her apparent relationship issues would suggest that she is going to wants to form a babby and get pragnent.

I would suggest moving at a fast pace using your feet towards a remote area of high altitude.
 
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