Hi there,
I've dabbled at OCing my system see sig. And im pretty sure you cant OC the RAM higher than 1333mhz on a 955/965 CPU. The motherboards will support it but the CPU cant handle it (can't remember why) so the only thing you can do to OC the RAM is to tighten up CAS timings.
Apologies.
I do remember that performance wise its better to have lower timings (7-7-7-20 @1333mhz) than higher timings (9-9-9-24) running @1600mhz.
But with abit of luck you might be able to get both like SeraphX
My old 965 was happily running at 3.8ghz with 1600mhz CAS 7 RAM...
To OP the 955 has an unlocked multiplier anyway, so if you overclock it via that method it won't even affect the RAM speed.