Minor decisions that can have a massive-massive impact on your life. I think I ****ed up.

arctine said:
Who's to say if your mother hadn't intervened your friendship that you wouldn't have drifted apart anyway?

I don't know anyone who's still friends with someone they knew at the age 5.

But no you're right, it's your mother/religions fault you can't get laid.
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Because my mum told me to stop hanging around with her? I'd say she's the cause of it.
 
Nitefly said:
There is actually a lot of truth in this.

asim18 in saying something genuinely profound shocker :eek: :p
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Not having the balls to talk to a girl he hasn't seen since childhood is not something he should be considering killing himself over.....


If he wants to get to know her then he simply needs to talk to her....not talk about topping himself.

Forgive me if I seem harsh, but sometimes the weight people put on relatively minor issues makes me mad.....especially after I have been delivering food parcels and donated toys to families and kids who could only dream of having a problem like that.

Wrong time of the month for me probably.....:(
 
asim18 said:
Because my mum told me to stop hanging around with her? I'd say she's the cause of it.
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I think you missed my point completely.

Yes your mother is the reason you stopped hanging out however, if your mother wasn't the reason then something else would be. It is very unlikely that you would have stayed friends for 15 more years.

I can't believe you're this bothered about something that happened when you were 5 anyway.
 
Castiel said:
Not having the balls to talk to a girl he hasn't seen since childhood is not something he should be considering killing himself over.....


If he wants to get to know her then he simply needs to talk to her....not talk about topping himself.

Forgive me if I seem harsh, but sometimes the weight people put on relatively minor issues makes me mad.....especially after I have been delivering food parcels and donated toys to families and kids who could only dream of having a problem like that.

Wrong time of the month for me probably.....:(
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Get off it dude. Yes, there are much worse problems going on in the world right now, go make a thread about them and discuss them in there.

All I need is some discussion to help get my feet back on the ground. And I've somewhat got that now :)
 
asim18 said:
What? How could I ignore my mother when I was 5. I didn't know back then.

Being myself is not a problem. I'm 20 now tyvm.
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Constructive advice Asim.....


Don't dwell on lost opportunities you can do nothing about....If you want to get to know this girl then go and talk to her, because your mum wouldn't allow you to be friends is not a barrier to rekindling a friendship now.

Most people do not remain friends with their kindergarden playmates for that long anyway and so even if you had known the girl throughout school it is unlikely you would have remained that close or even in contact...so this cpuld be a blessing in disguise as friendships that you cultivate as an adult are generally stronger and longer lasting than the ones you forge in childhood.

Go and talk to her, you have the advantage that you have primary school in common and that is a basis for striking up a conversation.

Forgive me for my harshness earlier, just a disagreement on persepective due to what I was doing today.

Anyway, go talk to her and good luck.



Ps...leave the Mac10 at home....girls generally don't like guns....not that kind anyway;)
 
Castiel said:
Not having the balls to talk to a girl he hasn't seen since childhood is not something he should be considering killing himself over.....


If he wants to get to know her then he simply needs to talk to her....not talk about topping himself.

Forgive me if I seem harsh, but sometimes the weight people put on relatively minor issues makes me mad.....especially after I have been delivering food parcels and donated toys to families and kids who could only dream of having a problem like that.

Wrong time of the month for me probably.....:(
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I said he shouldn't be a wuss about it as well :p

But I liked his comment. Regardless of 'first world problems boo hoo', it is his problem and as such it's going to mean a lot to him. Everyone has problems or things that stress them - that's fine. We all just have to look for solutions.

Which in your case OP means having a jaff and then asking her if she fancies meeting up. If she says no, it's not a problem!
 
My life is full of those choices that change my life forever.

If I had gone home early one night my life would have taken a completely different path, to the extent that i would not living where i am and would not be on this forum etc.

Yea i also need a g/f, never had a real relationship before and it sucks, but some how i don't let it bother me that much. I am sure eventually i will meet a girl that wants my bacon.
 
Life is like a book, a series of chapters. She was in an earlier chapter, the fact that she hasn't been since means nothing. It also doesn't mean you can't be friends with her anymore.

Friends come and go, you lose touch with old friends, you get new friends. It's just one aspect of life you just got to deal.

This isn't a problem, its a challenge :p
 
asim18 said:
Because my mum told me to stop hanging around with her? I'd say she's the cause of it.
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Your mum seems to be the cause of all your problems. Quit complaining about it and do something about it?
 
Castiel said:
Constructive advice Asim.....


Don't dwell on lost opportunities you can do nothing about....If you want to get to know this girl then go and talk to her, because your mum wouldn't allow you to be friends is not a barrier to rekindling a friendship now.

Most people do not remain friends with their kindergarden playmates for that long anyway and so even if you had known the girl throughout school it is unlikely you would have remained that close or even in contact...so this cpuld be a blessing in disguise as friendships that you cultivate as an adult are generally stronger and longer lasting than the ones you forge in childhood.

Go and talk to her, you have the advantage that you have primary school in common and that is a basis for striking up a conversation.

Forgive me for my harshness earlier, just a disagreement on persepective due to what I was doing today.

Anyway, go talk to her and good luck.



Ps...leave the Mac10 at home....girls generally don't like guns....not that kind anyway;)
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Thanks. Tbh, I think your problem is that you speak too much sense. :p
 
Worst 'My mum told me to stop hanging around with her because she was a girl and because I am muslim but now I'm all grown up but would like to smash her back doors in and well regret it' Thread
 
KingArthur said:
Worst 'My mum told me to stop hanging around with her because she was a girl and because I am muslim but now I'm all grown up but would like to smash her back doors in and well regret it' Thread
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True, but not the "smash back doors in" bit. I'd honestly have wanted to maintain an innocent friendship with her.
 
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