How long is to long to say merry xmas to people online u aint spoke with for while?

compboyo

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So I have some old buddies on facebook. Guys I hang with 1-2 years in college. SO I havent spoke with them in 2 maybe even 3-4 years some off them. I mean last facebook msg maybe 2-3 years.

I am going through a ''low freind'' spell. So Im thinking saying merry xmas to these dudes. Cause maybe tbh I wouldnt mind getting back in touch anyway. Some still stay in my town i think?

Would you find this odd or weird? And I mean Id just type ''hey man long time no speak, merry xmas and have a good new year!!'' ??????????

or

''hey hows it going, have a good xmas and new year.

Or youd be like er whos this? weird I aint spoke to him for ages? what he want?
 
I'm a miserable **** but I still wish strangers a happy christmas, nevermind people I actually know.

I think you're over complicating this OP.
 
Happy Christmas Compoboyo, you starting stupid threads in the middle of the night has kept me amused whilst my daughter has had disrupted sleep through teething.
Messag hem all, hopefully one of them will not hate you for messaging in middle of night and recall you as a friend.
Happy Christmas.
 
As is being awake for no reason at this time on Christmas, no friends, no contacts and actually asking permission of people you have never met if it is ok to talk to people you once knew.
 
Hikari Kisugi said:
As is being awake for no reason at this time on Christmas, no friends, no contacts and actually asking permission of people you have never met if it is ok to talk to people you once knew.
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Exactly this, thanks for saving me the time typing.

compboyo, you're already very weird. Why try to be something you're not?
 
Hikari Kisugi said:
As is being awake for no reason at this time on Christmas, no friends, no contacts and actually asking permission of people you have never met if it is ok to talk to people you once knew.
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Zefan said:
Exactly this, thanks for saving me the time typing.

compboyo, you're already very weird. Why try to be something you're not?
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well socially lets just say im akward but im a cheerful person but maybe sometimes to hyperactive also.

So im not sure if these people will be like

a.Oh no its him I thought I got rid off him, i hope he doesnt want to meet up.

or

b. Oh cool its him I wonder what hes up to? should we hook up? nice to see/hear from him

or

c. I compelely forgot who this guy is? in fact who is this guy? wow strange to msg me? is he gay? Does he want money? whats he after?


However, xmas/ny wishes is not asking to meet up or be freinds so i aint pressuring anything to them if they seem interested in me maybe we can be freinds again?

who knows?

Nothing lost if they dismiss me eh?
 
Well look at that, you've come to a conclusion all by yourself.

Feels good doesn't it?

Honestly, you don't need to make a new thread for every single decision you make.
 
Zefan said:
Well look at that, you've come to a conclusion all by yourself.

Feels good doesn't it?

Honestly, you don't need to make a new thread for every single decision you make.
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maybe yall guided me though

thanks

still if i put myself in their position. If I got emails from them id be happy but thats cause I only got few freinds atm...if I had loadsa freinds like b4 and some old or other dudes msg me id prob be like ''err''well thats odd, maybe reply out of politeness. Its just after uni its weird to not have loadsa freinds know what I mean? maybe they still got loadsa freinds
 
compboyo said:
maybe yall guided me though
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Really? There's guidance in this thread?

Let's recap.

Dunks said:
lolcompboyo
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No guidance.

arctine said:
I'm a miserable **** but I still wish strangers a happy christmas, nevermind people I actually know.

I think you're over complicating this OP.
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No guidance really, just saying "You're thinking about this too much" - i.e. no need for a thread.

Marine Iguana said:
If it was coming from you I'd find it weird.
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No guidance, just more mickey taking.

Hikari Kisugi said:
Happy Christmas Compoboyo, you starting stupid threads in the middle of the night has kept me amused whilst my daughter has had disrupted sleep through teething.
Messag hem all, hopefully one of them will not hate you for messaging in middle of night and recall you as a friend.
Happy Christmas.
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No guidance, just more mickey taking.


Hikari Kisugi said:
As is being awake for no reason at this time on Christmas, no friends, no contacts and actually asking permission of people you have never met if it is ok to talk to people you once knew.
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No guidance, just more (hilarious) mickey taking.

See where I'm coming from?

Here's some actual guidance - if you have to stop and think about whether it's alright to wish someone a merry Christmas, then it isn't.
 
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