Woman sets honeytrap, forum posters back her

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Ceiling_Cat said:
I basically got all the symptoms of a woman becoming disinterested so I poked around a bit and found she had quite a few profiles on chat sites (faceparty etc) and I noticed that she had a completely disproportionate amount of males on her msn list so one afternoon I went a bit crazy and managed to guess the lost password question correctly and gained access to her hotmail account. Anyway I then used the email to reset passwords on the sites she was using and found an utter heap of messages from various blokes being really flirty and arranging to book a hotel to meet up so at that point I confronted her and she rationalised it by saying she liked the attention.

I left it at that and a while after I added her on msn with a new account and claimed to be a mutual friend and it didn't take long for her to be really flirty so after a while I revealed myself and that didn't go down well lol.

That was when I was younger and I'm really really embarrassed about doing it, I'm glad I'm over that sort of suspicion and jealousy. To be doing this sort of thing as a grown adult and when kids are involved is utterly disgusting and anyone backing what this mental did needs to grow up.
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I don't know why but your sig and user name really go well with your story :D
 
[FnG]magnolia;21026876 said:
The scene : a troubled, younger woman is in a relationship with a guy and they have two kids, one of breastfeeding age. She's been in a very painful relationship prior to this one where her partner or husband (I'm not actually sure which) cheated on her which really messed her up. She has colossal issues regarding trust, fidelity and honesty.
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He forgot the all important rule when dealing with women:

Don't stick it in the crazy.
 
[FnG]magnolia;21028509 said:
There are many well educated ladies who post there, so let's park the "YOU DUMB!" bus over there.

Stick to the topic guys :)
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I'm sure there are a handful of 'well educated ladies' on there, but the majority most certainly are not.

Anyway, you knew this would happen. It's why you made the thread! :p
 
cm1179 said:
i'm sorry for posting another topic from the forum but read this and the first response. i lol'ed

This happened a few months ago but is something I'm still thinking about. We were sleeping in the same bed but I had made it clear that I didn't want to have sex and he was fine with this. I was wearing pyjamas (well, leggings and top) to reinforce this fact. When we turned the light out I settled on my side facing away from him and after a few minutes he scootched across the bed and starting nuzzling me. I warned him not to as it would be bound to turn him on and he would want it to lead to things but he carried on. He tried to take my leggings off but I told him this was annoying and to stop, same when he put his hand up my top. Even though I kept telling him not to, he held onto me quite firmly and started having sex with me. After a few minutes he could tell I was not really into it and stopped, but then lay there fidgeting and obviously not about to go to sleep as he was so frustrated, so I said he could carry on.

For a while he refused to admit that he had done anything wrong, saying that I hadn't used a special safe word we have used before, and that because I had let him at the end it validated the whole thing. I did see his point, although still wasn't that happy. But we talked about it again recently and now he admits that he was too pressuring and went too far. There was nothing violent about any of it and he is now very sorry he did it, and I think now actually realises what his actions could be called. At the end of the discussion he seemed pretty upset by this and so I told him it was OK.

Do you think it's possible to do something like that but really not intend it and to never do it again?

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No. I think he raped you and will do it again.

that site should be called 'let's make blokes lifes hell' it's pure gold
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Penetrating a woman who hasn't consented is rape. If you think it's impossible to commit rape inside a relationship or that rape requires a degree of violence, you'd best check the law.
 
Having never experienced the joy of mumsnet before I thought I'd mosey on over and have a gander.

If I had to decide between living in mumsnet and Hell, I'd rent out mumsnet and burn for all eternity.
 
Hi, I am a regular poster but I have finally admitted to my dh on friday about my ea.

It is 6 months since it finished, dh have been working on our marriage, I cut out all the behaviours that contributed to the ea and also my dh, unbeknown to him, tried to fix the problems we were experiencing. 6 months down the line life is perfect, I feel full but my heart has been in pieces, looking into the eyes of my dh knowing that i had a terrible secret, it got to the point that i needed to give him the choice, he needed to know what he had married and to be able to decide whether I was still the woman he wanted.

The innocense of our marriage is lost, the trust is lost. He has taken it well, incredibly blamed his own behaviour for pushing me away, I wouldn't allow this, but then didn't go down the self pity route.

He doesn't want to know details just wants life to carry on, put it behind us. this frightens me, is he is shock? is he going to turn around next week and say actually its over.

I didn't tell him for selfish reasons, I knew that the fallout would be terrible, i knew I would hurt him but i needed to give the choice, its all I have read about on here, the humility of the situation.
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You had an Emotional Affair. Okay- so what? it's over, you've found out why you needed to do it.
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lol at the same advice being given to a woman who found out her bloke had been doing the same thing - it would be leave the *******, he cant be trusted, leopards never change their spots ad nauseum ::grin::
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Truth ^

Sums up that forum really
 
TJM said:
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Penetrating a woman who hasn't consented is rape. If you think it's impossible to commit rape inside a relationship or that rape requires a degree of violence, you'd best check the law.
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of course it isn't impossible and i get your point but this womans story i find some what laughable, especially as she gives him the OK to 'finish himself off'.
 
Penetrating a woman who hasn't consented is rape. If you think it's impossible to commit rape inside a relationship or that rape requires a degree of violence, you'd best check the law.
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Hmmm. I'm sure there is something in the law about her not getting out of the bed, and just letting it happen inch by inch (see what I did there) while saying oh no, no, oh stop.

Or something.
 
One girl whining that she isn't into sex but her other half is, and a reply pick out of the thread

I think if you're not bothered about it then your man can't be all that good at it, or isn't in tune with you, or only concerned for themselves, or all three.
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Good god, nothing to do with being a fridgid bint then :D Comedy gold in nearly every thread
 
I love the one with the guy who downloaded 'teen' porn (perfectly legit stuff from the sounds of it).

Op, how long until your own dds are teenagers? Bring in teenage girls to the house?
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Surely if she has daughters the OP has had ACTUAL SEX WITH MEN? WHAT IF A MAN COMES TO THE HOUSE?
 
Mumsnet.....

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How many people are trolling mumsnet right now? Every thread iv clicked on in it to try and work out the one the OP was on about has a post (from the second to the 6th) that basically says WOMEN YOU CAN'T HAVE NICE MEN BECAUSE YOU REFUSE TO USE CORRECT PUNCTUATION ON THIS SITE!

Least I have some proof for the "most women are crazy" theory.
 
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