I think my girlfriend has a stalker...

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Backstory: My girlfriend and I just moved to Japan and live in a fairly small place just outside Sendai (where the March Tsunami was). Anyway, today she gets approached by a random guy who started talking to her. She spoke to him in politeness through his broken English but it soon became apparent he was complimenting her good looks a lot and mentioned a rucksack he'd seen her with several times before, though she didn't have it with her today. Stupidly she gave him her real mobile number and he text her this evening...

The English is terrible, obviously been through a translator, but you can get the gist. What should we do?!

I am sorry to have surprised a while ago, applying it.
Thank you very much for hearing my talk perfectly, although it is uncanny and cold.
Once again, the feeling to which it spoke this time is conveyed.
I left Tokyo passed for ten years in November, last year, and came back to Sendai.
It had gone by work to Tokyo.
My elder brother was managing the construction-related company and made it very busy according to the earthquake last year.
Then, the elder brother's company was joined and every day committed hard was passed now.
Since the mother also lived in the parents' home alone and it was anxious about her, furniture was good, but the more he did his best in work, the more it came to feel lonesomeness at every day passed alone.
After all, the surrounding friend was married in ten years, and since it was working, there was also no opportunity to meet a woman.
It passed by you at the crossing before a bridge while considering such a thing, and the year beginning and going shopping on January 8.
I considered.
You were worrisome "sucha person beautiful [ why ] will be in such the country", "courage taking shortly and I telling that I speak and want it to make friends, if it can meet once again", and every day.
And the miracle for me occurred today! Think that there is no chance again if it does not speak today.
Although it seems that he is too strange suddenly a person, I would like to get to know time to introduce me and you more, and to become friendly truly.
Therefore, please eat with me once.
The tavern where food is delicious is near Rikuzen-Ochiai.
Then, I would like to talk, also drinking alcohol slowly.
Thank you for your consideration.
Please give me your time.
 
Why did she give out her mobile number to a stranger?

I think this guy fancies a bit, and has asked her out. It doesn't sound particularly stalkerish. Just get her to say she is with someone and let it lie.
 
Her response to why she gave her number out was she was too confused and didn't understand what she was saying until she'd given him her number already. All sounds a bit suspicious to me. :(
 
It was naive of her to give a stranger her number, but that can't be helped now. Surely she just needs to explain she is with somebody and the matter is over? I wouldn't say he was a stalker just because he's interested in her. If it goes further and he continues to press then by all means you may want to get involved, but just sounds like he likes her to me (?)
 
Send message back saying "would you like to see whats under my skirt" when he repplies yes send him a picture of your junk, no more messages
 
You can't blame this guy if she willingly gave her number to him. If he obtained it by other means then yes, that's wrong.
 
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