Dilemma - To homewreck or not to homewreck

A; and store lots of evidence so take photos and keep incriminating messages. then send them to her bf and say "sorry bro, your with a skank"

Do not fall for this girl, she will end up doing the same to you. If she was decent and it was true love she would have broken up with her bf to be with you
 
Natwee said:
if she gets with you becasue she has been messing around with someone when she already has a bf, then who's to say next time you wont be the bf she does it to.
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This.

Once a cheater always a cheater.

Also,

I'd go with option A.

Bash and dash, it's a class act every time.
 
Wow, I have no idea why people post up such chronologies of their love lives! It's just asking for touble.

I think the old phrase 'all is fair in love and war' is largely true. As long as she doesn't continue to see you behind her current "boyfriend's" back for an undue length of time then it's fine. If she likes you, go for it. If you get her for your own, then you have won and they can't have been 100% right for each other anyway... at least not at that time.

Or you could do nothing about it and lose. I'd plump with the former.

Edit - reading some of the replies here, I continue to think that people base their idea of relationships on Barney the Dinosaur.
 
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She's already cheating on her boyfriend and as such is a horrible person.

If you still want her, the only decent thing you can do is tell her to either leave her current bf, or sod off. Imagine if you were him, how would you feel if your gf was cheating on you? Don't be an *******.
 
godinman said:
She's already cheating on her boyfriend and as such is a horrible person.

If you still want her, the only decent thing you can do is tell her to either leave her current bf, or sod off. Imagine if you were him, how would you feel if your gf was cheating on you? Don't be an *******.
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I think she's only a 'bad' person if she continues to act in this way and play both of you off. She is at a crossroads herself by the sounds of things.

The OP shouldn't be overly forceful, but it isn't douchey to tell her you want to make something of it.
 
Ascendancy said:
Girl has boyfriend. OP likes Girl. Girl likes OP. They've kissed several times.

WAT DO OCUK.
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a) give her one
b) give him one
c) give them both one together
d) post her picture
e) post his picture
f) post your picture
g) don't do a thing
h) get new girlfriend
i) post life history
j) get on with life

The choice is yours............
 
Like all previous threads, relating women, we need pics of said girl in order for us to make a unified decision.
 
This is how me and my current missus ended up together.

She immediately told the other guy, and left him and we're still together several years later and blissfully happy. But you have to know she's not a ****, so she has to tell her bf of her own volition and then decide she still wants to be with you.
 
Everything that can be said has been said.

Once a cheat always a cheat, you WILL be the next "boyfriend in the other room" further down the line if things did develope for you guys.

So for the above stay away.
 
Nitefly said:
I think she's only a 'bad' person if she continues to act in this way and play both of you off. She is at a crossroads herself by the sounds of things.

The OP shouldn't be overly forceful, but it isn't douchey to tell her you want to make something of it.
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I suppose if she stops being a ho now, then she's not too much of a ****face. But she needs to decide, and stick with it.

And yeah, as I've said, if the OP wants to avoid being an *******, then he simply needs to tell her how he feels, tell her to make a decision, and then leave it if she doesn't leave her boyfriend. Simples.
 
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