Aww bless the OP - he's done that travelling thing and has found himself, the meaning of life and the answers to all the problems of the world.Good for you OP. Tell me, though, would you love the Laotian way of life if there was no wealthy developed country that you could return to on an aeroplane every year (or if you ever get seriously ill) to earn in a few months a few years of Laotian wages with which to fund your life of drinking and not much else? What about after 10 years? I wonder if your 'girlfriend' doesn't just see you as a ticket into the western society you are criticising so strongly (despite utterly depending on it)?
A lot of poeple in this thread need to realise that living in a Western society doesn't automatically make one an enslaved zombie living only to work and consume. A vast many, myself included, genuinely 'work to live'. I realise the most important thing is not wealth, but spending time with my wife and family, and take time to do that; I am not enslaved by advertising to desire nothing but the latest consumer goods; although my career inevitably 'makes someone else richer', I also appreciate that it makes me richer, allows me to provide for my family, I enjoy it, it betters me and I am making a small contribution to society; I'm glad of the freedom from hunger, education, opportunity, standard of healthcare that my Western society provides because people work.
I can understand why some people take such a bitter and cynical view - people who really view their job as depressing and dead-end, people who dont take time to appreciate family (because they choose to spend their free timing consuming Eastenders/X-factor instead, for example), people who read too much conspiracy theory nonsense, etc, etc. But the solution for these is not to moan about society, they need to get off their butts and better themselves, be it study or whatever to get a less depressing job, spend more time with family, or simply realise just how lucky we really are in our Western society compared to the vast majority of people in the world and just get on with it. Or if Western society just isn't for you, do a Radox and move to Laos?
I guess that last point is a wider issue. There will always be people of different dispositions. Some are happy to work hard to better themselves and their society and their position within it, and want to live in a society that supports that. Other people want to live as simply as possible and do as little work as possible. The problem then is that you don't choose the country you're born in. Lot's of people in poor countries would love the opportunity to live in a developed society in which they can work hard to better themselves, and lot's of people in developed countries, it would seem from this thread, would rather go and live in the third world 'free' from the complications and obligations of the West.
So my great solution is to round up everybody in the world, then redistribute them according to their ideals. People who want to live in developped society and work for its and their own betterment can do so, and poeple who want to live in a hut in Africa (or Laos) can also do so. The catch is all those people moaning about the evils of Western society who think they want to live without it, so that they can't be accused of being massive hypocrites, really have to live without it. So that's no internet, no cars, no planes to fly you back to visit your old Western home, no healthcare (other than witch doctors, spiritual healers, etc etc of course - that's allowed), no technology at all in fact. Sound fair? Good.
/World fixed
Well done on totally missing the point of the debate...
Good for you OP. Tell me, though, would you love the Laotian way of life if there was no wealthy developed country that you could return to on an aeroplane every year (or if you ever get seriously ill) to earn in a few months a few years of Laotian wages with which to fund your life of drinking and not much else? What about after 10 years? I wonder if your 'girlfriend' doesn't just see you as a ticket into the western society you are criticising so strongly (despite utterly depending on it)?