opinion on bf/gf cheating....

helpimcrap · 20 Feb 2012 at 23:02

Hi guys - i'm having a discussion with a rather opinionated lady who thinks i am a right **** apparently.

Reason being:-

I once split up with a girlfriend because i considered cheating (never have - never will!) and because of that i thought i can't really be in love and she deserves better.

Apparently 'thinking' about it is as bad as actually doing it!? WTF.....

I'd like opinions on this - particularly off any girls please....

Jono8 · 20 Feb 2012 at 23:05

We have all thought about it.

Murf · 20 Feb 2012 at 23:05

Of course thinking about it isn't as bad as doing it.

You did the right thing. You knew it wasn't going anywhere, and ended it properly.

The woman you're speaking to is a moron.

[FnG]magnolia · 20 Feb 2012 at 23:06

I'm a girl and I consider mental infidelity to be as bad if not worse than physical infidelity. When I'm with a boyfriend, I want to know that his mind is on me 100% of the time and if he's looking at other skanks then I can't be his princess anymore. If I'm not his princess then he can't be my prince and that is far more important than whether he actually puts his winkle some place he shouldn't (like he tried to with me 4 weeks ago, claiming it was a mistake and he 'just slipped').

Jono8 · 20 Feb 2012 at 23:07

[FnG]magnolia;21310134 said:
I'm a girl and I consider mental infidelity to be as bad if not worse than physical infidelity. When I'm with a boyfriend, I want to know that his mind is on me 100% of the time and if he's looking at other skanks then I can't be his princess anymore. If I'm not his princess then he can't be my prince and that is far more important than whether he actually puts his winkle some place he shouldn't (like he tried to with me 4 weeks ago, claiming it was a mistake and he 'just slipped').

Draeger · 20 Feb 2012 at 23:08

Actually..........

Murf said:
The woman you're speaking to is a woman.

Fixed.

There's no understanding their logic especially in a debate / argument so don't even attempt to do so.

Kristoph · 20 Feb 2012 at 23:08

Had me going for a moment. You wrote that far too well. Do you have a split personality?

int · 20 Feb 2012 at 23:08

helpimcrap said:
I once split up with a girlfriend because i considered cheating (never have - never will!) and because of that i thought i can't really be in love and she deserves better.

I thought this said she deserves butter.

Morgoth · 20 Feb 2012 at 23:09

Tell her your username on this forum and then hold your head to her stomach and sob deeply.

sigma · 20 Feb 2012 at 23:10

My opinion is that most women = crazy.

steve-h · 20 Feb 2012 at 23:10

thinking about cheating is cheating?

strong

helpimcrap · 20 Feb 2012 at 23:11

int said:
I thought this said she deserves butter.

hang on a bit with the talk of lubricant.... this is a family forum!!!

RomanNose · 20 Feb 2012 at 23:11

Reminds me..

J-FRO · 20 Feb 2012 at 23:11

What if you have a sexy dream? Technically you've still thought it, but how can you control that?! :eek:

PapaLazaru · 20 Feb 2012 at 23:11

Sounds like she has been reading Mumsnet a little too much.

helpimcrap · 20 Feb 2012 at 23:12

[FnG]magnolia;21310134 said:
I'm a girl and I consider mental infidelity to be as bad if not worse than physical infidelity. When I'm with a boyfriend, I want to know that his mind is on me 100% of the time and if he's looking at other skanks then I can't be his princess anymore. If I'm not his princess then he can't be my prince and that is far more important than whether he actually puts his winkle some place he shouldn't (like he tried to with me 4 weeks ago, claiming it was a mistake and he 'just slipped').

this is exactly what i'm on about!!!

oh..... eh!? lol

StoutMeister · 20 Feb 2012 at 23:14

[FnG]magnolia;21310134 said:
I'm a girl and I consider mental infidelity to be as bad if not worse than physical infidelity. When I'm with a boyfriend, I want to know that his mind is on me 100% of the time and if he's looking at other skanks then I can't be his princess anymore. If I'm not his princess then he can't be my prince and that is far more important than whether he actually puts his winkle some place he shouldn't (like he tried to with me 4 weeks ago, claiming it was a mistake and he 'just slipped').

She speaks pearls of wisdom.

Marshstyles · 20 Feb 2012 at 23:18

[FnG]magnolia;21310134 said:
I'm a girl and I consider mental infidelity to be as bad if not worse than physical infidelity. When I'm with a boyfriend, I want to know that his mind is on me 100% of the time and if he's looking at other skanks then I can't be his princess anymore. If I'm not his princess then he can't be my prince and that is far more important than whether he actually puts his winkle some place he shouldn't (like he tried to with me 4 weeks ago, claiming it was a mistake and he 'just slipped').

I bet you're hard work...

helpimcrap · 20 Feb 2012 at 23:19

so let me get this right - the fact i was 'thinking' about it but never did AND split up with her i'm a cheat?

No wonder jeremy kyle is still on the air lol....

Disco Boy · 20 Feb 2012 at 23:20

helpimcrap said:
Hi guys - i'm having a discussion with a rather opinionated lady who thinks i am a right **** apparently.

Reason being:-

I once split up with a girlfriend because i considered cheating (never have - never will!) and because of that i thought i can't really be in love and she deserves better.

Apparently 'thinking' about it is as bad as actually doing it!? WTF.....

I'd like opinions on this - particularly off any girls please....

You did absolutely the right thing...