What, difficult as in expecting a conversation or simple attention after sleeping together ?I would counter that by pointing out that she is, at best, an utter obsessive, who is willing to make his life difficult for her own gain.
At that point normal people can expect to have reached a level of mutual intimacy that further contact can be expected. He patently considers cards more important, so frankly I'd be a little cranky too.
If he'd planned on dumping her then be a man about it and tell her straight, not wimp out with some lame excuse and ignore her.
His charactor here is clearly indicated that he feels no responsibility for what happened and then goes on to crow about it on a public forum. That's about as scummy as it gets IMO.
Personally I think his attitude created it, what does anyone do when someone blanks them for no reason, they try and figure out what they have done to deserve such disrespect. Personally I find ignoring people for whatever reason incredibly rude.I don't know if you've ever had to deal with this kind of obsessive behavior before, but usually the only option is to ignore them.
Because that is open ended and uninformative and frankly way too late when she's already lost it. It doesn't take much to kick of a cascade of self doubt when you've had a bad day. Look how she oscillates between acknowledging her behaviour and then continuing it, that's not insanity that's emotional distress."I'm uncomfortable talking to you" -> Half a dozen follow up texts.
Nice at how you all laugh at this though, yet nobody acknowledges what a dog the guy has been.
What, so you can gauge a level of emotional response, stick a points out of ten figure on that and drop it into conversation over coffee ? Let's see, I'm about an 8 on a good day, helpful ?I always find it interesting how women claim that men lie about their intentions to get them into bed. How about the women who lie about their sanity to get men into relationships? How is that better?
How about treating people with some level of respect, then you won't get the irrational responses that being dumped engenders.
This works both ways, how many guys turn into stalkers when their intended just blanks them or equally how many won't take no for an answer on dating sites.
Maybe I should post some of the sad whining I get, then you can laugh at that too, or maybe you might find some of that a bit too close to the bone
