Would you leave your wife if she got fat?

If I started to find her repulsive, I'd tell her she needs to lose weight, and if it became enough of an issue (i.e small crane for her to get out of the house), then yes, I would.
 
Depends what we are talking here ?

Women Always put on a bit of weight when they are in a Happy relationship & a curvy woman is sexy to me so no prob.
On the other hand if she was a fitty one minute & a wilderbeast the next I'd trade her in.
 
I would, no point staying with someone if they can’t look after themselves and just plain lazy. Sitting in front of the TV or computer watch and eating junk packing on the pounds.

My best mate left his wife and kids for the same reason years back. She soon lost the weight during the split but never got back together because of his current partner who is size 8/10.
 
drunkenmaster said:
Depends on if they are willing to do something about it. You have one life, I don't particularly want to be stuck around banging a fat woman I'm not attracted to physically but more importantly for me, I absolutely without question don't want a fat wife teaching my children bad eating habits.

Bringing up kids is balance between teaching them whats right and not pressuring them into being a depressed mess. Trying to teach your kids the right way to eat healthily and stay healthy and strong while your wife is teaching them the opposite is not going to turn out well.

Having been on the end of that, parents who taught be horrible eating habits, which have effected my life along with many other problems greatly. My eating habits after I became injured with bad joints became a big problem, my life would have been better if I was brought up with different eating habits, that is simply fact, I'd be happier, healthier, have less bad joints and be in less pain and less depressed.

For me its crucial, its a HUGE priority that I do my absolute best to make sure I give my kids the best chance in life at being happy and healthy, a fit healthy wife who knows how to eat and how to teach her kids to eat is crucial to that.
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I agree with everything here, I see the problems obesity causes every day and do not want this for my family. If my wife can not learn to control her self and is not willing to learn to eat properly then I don't think I would want her to be the mother of my children.

This is assuming there is no medical cause of her obesity.

I am also not attracted to fat girls, my wife is a size 10 and thats my top limit.
 
kwerk said:
Would you say it's acceptable to leave your wife (and kids too I suppose if you have them) if she got fat?

This is assuming she was thin when you got married, and you're both still young enough to have sex (under 40 lets say).

Or would it be more acceptable to have some more attractive crumpet on the side?

Or the 3rd option, be tied down to BBW sex the rest of your life?

ETA: let's define fat as simply weighing more than you do yourself.
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I would leave your wife if she got fat yes.
 
fat women would be easier to please, especially in the bedroom department.

Nothing wrong with a chub, as long as it didn't get in the way of our sex life :)

Not only that when women give birth, they have abit of baby weight, so would you leave them if they couldn't shift it ?

Aslong as we were happy that;s the important thing
 
I see letting yourself get fat along the same lines as not caring about washing your clothes or brushing your teeth. It's not attractive and is a sign of personality and lack of self-respect, not just a physical thing.

My girlfriend asked me if I'd leave her if she got fat, I was truthful. :p
 
In a round about way i did, she piled on the weight after marriage and i started to find her unattractive, which led to arguments about other things and it put a strain on the marriage until we spilt. So even if it's not the main reason it was a very big factor (and the fact she was rubbish in bed, knew it, and wasn't interested in getting better)
 
robgmun said:
In a round about way i did, she piled on the weight after marriage and i started to find her unattractive, which led to arguments about other things and it put a strain on the marriage until we spilt. So even if it's not the main reason it was a very big factor (and the fact she was rubbish in bed, knew it, and wasn't interested in getting better)
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Sounds like you need a penis enlargement.
 
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