California voted through Proposition 8, so I'd not want anything to do with a state which is so backwards.
Politics are a bit funky all over the US... California is one of the more progressive states, so I'm quite surprised that Prop 8 went the wrong way.
However, I'm not gay - so it doesn't affect me directly

I also don't care about marriage at all, even though I'll have to marry the other half to bring her with me

Neither of us are all that interested in marriage.
New York City not an option? That'd be my first choice
Yes, an option - I'm just not all that interested in NYC... I want more outdoorsy stuff to do, I want cars, garages, other petrol powered toys for skimming accross a lake, bombing it through woodland and jumping over sand dunes... none of which I can do in NYC. Sac is perfect for most of that, just a bit of a drive for the dunes
It also has one of the highest costs of living in the US and you get a small apartment for your money - I like space!
I also like the big city amenities... so it's a trade-off... but I prefer the space.
Portland is full of meth heads and the rest are full of gang members.
I wouldn't want to live in any of those cities tbh.
I know meth is a rather large problem across the whole of the USA
From what I've heard and seen though, Portland is a very nice place to be. I expect it has it's bad areas though, as does everywhere.