Promiscuous girls/women

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I'm more talking about when your younger like 16-20 or so, where i came from(small town) a lot of the girls where seemed pretty outrageously slack, basically sleeping with half the town, I don't get how they can do that, they must just switch off all attachment to be able to move move onto the next. I guess just shameless, always been something that's baffled me though. Maybe the 90s were a bit more raw or the town i came from was a bit redneck or maybe just don't have any idea what goes on at that age now that things are still the same. It wasn't just trashy girls it seemed to be them all from all kind of backgrounds. Thoughts?
 
If you can't beat them join them. Why it a problem, they are just having fun? If it was men then I bet you are less likely to complain.
It's the same here and every town, there is no reason why I should care. I really don't give a hoot about what someone does in their free time.
 
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The thing is, I don't actually care about girls sleeping around, do what you will.

It's the one's that then go ahead, and lie to the person they want to "stick" with.

Eg I was going out with a girl last year, (I'm remaining til marriage) who swore she had only had one partner.

Cue me finding out 5 months down the line she had had at least 15!

Needless to say she went.



edit: this attitude isn't that uncommon, plenty of girls at my uni have said that they will lie about the figures they have slept with. :(
 
I've lived around Oxfordshire, Wiltshire and London while I've grew up and I'm 21 now. A good 90% of girls I've met in my life are like this and some are just ****s and the other ones are just pure stupid and think they love this guy then that guy then the first guy again.
 
Girls are more cunning about it.

Men and Women "play" about, but men are bad at it.

Women can do it better, plus all the power is in their hands, they can pick and choose... we cant.

If you think im talking rubbish, trust me im not. I find that relationships arent strong after 2years, then the girls are very happy to play and also the lads.

not 100% of the time though so everyone here in a good relationship chill out ha :)
 
The thing is, I don't actually care about girls sleeping around, do what you will.

It's the one's that then go ahead, and lie to the person they want to "stick" with.

Eg I was going out with a girl last year, (I'm remaining til marriage) who swore she had only had one partner.

Cue me finding out 5 months down the line she had had at least 15!

Needless to say she went.



edit: this attitude isn't that uncommon, plenty of girls at my uni have said that they will lie about the figures they have slept with. :(

So girl wants to be with you but knows her past relationships will make you leave her so she lies about it, seems like she made the right choice doesn't it.

chance of relationship over no relationship.
 
Are you typing on your laptop in the closet?

Whats wrong with wanting a girl that hasn't shagged half the town?

Personally I view the whole affair as being disasteful. Not saying everyone should remain a holy joe til after the wedding, I've no problem with pre maritial sex if that what floats your boat, but ****ing like dogs is not showing yourself or potential partner respect.
 
Anyone who believes a girl who tells them they haven't slept around is a fool. I'd say 90% do it but some are much better than others at keeping it quiet.
 
Whats wrong with wanting a girl that hasn't shagged half the town?

Personally I view the whole affair as being disasteful. Not saying everyone should remain a holy joe til after the wedding, I've no problem with pre maritial sex if that what floats your boat, but ****ing like dogs is not showing yourself or potential partner respect.

Was just a joke...Sorry.
 
So girl wants to be with you but knows her past relationships will make you leave her so she lies about it, seems like she made the right choice doesn't it.

chance of relationship over no relationship.

You're condoning lieing about so important as trust in a relationship? (which she knew (by my adherence to certain ethics) could have serious).

The reason why it's an issue is because I have an issue with it. A girl that's been sleeping around naturally presents itself as less attractive in my eyes (though it's an absolute deal breaker in 100% of cases. Lying about it is however)
 
Anyone who believes a girl who tells them they haven't slept around is a fool. I'd say 90% do it but some are much better than others at keeping it quiet.

People say the same about men, and I know another bloke who is also abstienant.
 
You're condoning lieing about so important as trust in a relationship? (which she knew (by my adherence to certain ethics) could have serious).

The reason why it's an issue is because I have an issue with it. A girl that's been sleeping around naturally presents itself as less attractive in my eyes (though it's an absolute deal breaker in 100% of cases. Lying about it is however)

Yup. If I find out a girl I'm talking to is a **** then I am instantly uninterested in them.
 
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