Caporegime
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- 18 Oct 2002
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Some of the attitudes around are hilarious, for one thing a women that has slept with say 30 guys is MOST LIKELY having a bunch of one night stands, that is, say over 10 or 20 years, or you know, 3500 to 7000 days roughly having sex not that often, could be as few as 30 times.
While a person who is dating one serious partner for a decade might be doing it 10 times a week, for a decade could have had sex, and likely far more intimate(yes the other hole), filthy, experimental, kinky sex, errm, basically thousands of times.
So what is it that people don't like, is it how sloppy they are, or the number of guys, or the type of sex they had or what.
People have sex, women frequently lie about the amount of partners they have(as do guys, we lie with a higher number to friends and a lower number to girlfriends) because we have this mental idea, with no logic behind it, that having had more sex is somehow a bad thing. Though realistically most people even more illogically relate the number of people to more sex, when the opposite is usually true and less partners generally means more relationship which generally means more sex.
Its not even a victorian attitude, because up until really early/mid 1900's, people were far more open about sex, and didn't give a **** about it.
Women are absolutely free to have fun, sex isn't dirty, or filthy(unless you want it to be) and if you judge someone on how much sex they've had, its a FAR bigger statement on the people who think its weird than the people who have a normal healthy sex life.
You are absolutely entitled to want to be with a virgin and never sleep with anyone else in your life time, and you can find women who have lots of sex odd. But you should also realise that there is little to no logic behind most peoples "beliefs" on it. Parents/society gives you the idea sex is naughty, shouldn't be talked about and that anyone that does it a lot is weird, without ever explaining why.
Either way, while men often have this attitude women will continue to lie about their number, the OP/Pate, have this idea that women should be all but celibate, so women play up to that role. They lie because ultimately deep down you want it to be true and in real life its easier for women to pretend to be what you want, than you fix your attitude.
Whatever, I'll marry some women eventually who is absolutely fantastic in bed, and the OP/Pate and anyone else can marry a virgin, who turns out to be awful in bed, and regret it for life.
