Promiscuous girls/women

Ahleckz said:
Why is the number of people that you have slept with a fundamental thing in a relationship?
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It is when the other person is waiting until marriage before they have sex, it is pretty damn fundamental.
It isnt in every relationship, but it clearly is for this man.

I dont understand people attacking someone as he wants to wait until he s married, and is hoping for someone whomisnt overly promiscious to be his one.
Yet he is being ravaged and slaughtered in this thread.

Its his own bloody opinion and business, not yours.
 
I'm pretty much repulsed by the general consensus that casual sex is okay.

I'm not the slightest bit religious, but I'd say it's immoral.

Your body makes a promise whether you do or not, it's supposed to bring you together to protect your offspring. Your body doesn't know about contraception, so you're playing tricks with your mind, and your partner's mind - and everyone thereafter knows you have an implied bond with someone else already, whether you shrug it off or not.
 
Pate said:
I'm extremely lax on most things in life. If you knew me (and lets not start with the presumptions again, lets not have a repeat of Castiels wife rebuking you :p) you've agree.

However there are a few issues that yes ARE important to me. Is that so very wrong? If there is an issue then it's something me and a person can work through or not. I'm assuming we all have principles we hold true to?

The whole sex business is a state of mind. Someone on a completely different wavelength is not going to be compatible with me, just like I'm sure you can think of issues that some people wouldn't be compatible with you on. It's the way of the world.

Referring to the fact of how many people's she been with, and the implications therefore, rather than the actual act.
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There is nothing wrong with having views that are important to you and what not, however relationships (though I'm getting the feeling you've had very few, if any 'proper' ones) are all about compromise and discussion. You have seriously reduced the size of the net that you can cast to find love and happiness because of some weird obsession with someone's number of sex partners.

You're putting a weird onus and importance on sex which frankly isn't that important in love and maintaining a relationship.

She didn't rebunk me at all. It's just a differing of views which can be based on reason and logic. Your views can not be based on such. Anyway, that time I didn't explain myself at all well as I was in a bad mood (with love, funnily enough!) and a bit tipsy.

Further to all of this, the number of partners that someone has been with is of no importance to you and nor is it of any business.
 
Guy has lots of sex... 'LAD... get in there'

Girl has lots of sex... '****, whore, cheap, shameless

Sex is fun. So long as everyone is keeping safe and being sensible I don't see an issue. It's also non of my business.

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billysielu said:
I'm pretty much repulsed by the general consensus that casual sex is okay.

I'm not the slightest bit religious, but I'd say it's immoral.

Your body makes a promise whether you do or not, it's supposed to bring you together to protect your offspring. Your body doesn't know about contraception, so you're playing tricks with your mind, and your partner's mind - and everyone thereafter knows you have an implied bond with someone else already, whether you shrug it off or not.
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lolwat?

I'm tricking my mind because I have sex with someone and use a condom? My mind doesn't think that I'm having sex to create a baby, hence why the physical act of sex doesn't create any sort of bond between people.
 
And the funny thing is......

The ones that actually don't sleep around - or have a "decent" amount of partners earlier on.

Are usually the ones who reach the 30-40 age group and then start having affairs/more sex etc...... because they then realise what they have missed - and that sex is actually quite fun ( as opposed to the last 10 years they have spent with the only person they have had sex with - who was totally incompatible with them in bed) :eek:

Fair play to any woman who want to sleep around. I wouldn't judge her any differently - In fact - I would probably want to get to know her better..... as long as she wasn't a nutjob as well as a girl who enjoys sex as much as a man. Slating women for enjoying sex is a bit 90's - to be honest.
 
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billysielu said:
I'm pretty much repulsed by the general consensus that casual sex is okay.

I'm not the slightest bit religious, but I'd say it's immoral.

Your body makes a promise whether you do or not, it's supposed to bring you together to protect your offspring. Your body doesn't know about contraception, so you're playing tricks with your mind, and your partner's mind - and everyone thereafter knows you have an implied bond with someone else already, whether you shrug it off or not.
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got some biological proof to back that up there buddy?
 
billysielu said:
I'm pretty much repulsed by the general consensus that casual sex is okay.

I'm not the slightest bit religious, but I'd say it's immoral.

Your body makes a promise whether you do or not, it's supposed to bring you together to protect your offspring. Your body doesn't know about contraception, so you're playing tricks with your mind, and your partner's mind - and everyone thereafter knows you have an implied bond with someone else already, whether you shrug it off or not.
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Wearing a condom isnt like chewing gum if thats what you are trying to say. Mind you both end up flavourless and boring :p
 
I'm sure at least some of the women who sleep around a lot (and try to break as many hearts as possible) are psychopaths.

In which case you'd be better off without them anyway.
 
Hikari Kisugi said:
It is when the other person is waiting until marriage before they have sex, it is pretty damn fundamental.
It isnt in every relationship, but it clearly is for this man.

I dont understand people attacking someone as he wants to wait until he s married, and is hoping for someone whomisnt overly promiscious to be his one.
Yet he is being ravaged and slaughtered in this thread.

Its his own bloody opinion and business, not yours.
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Thank you again for seeing my viewpoint even if you don't necessarily agree with me. I'm starting to feel like I've got two heads by some people's responses!

Ahleckz said:
There is nothing wrong with having views that are important to you and what not, however relationships (though I'm getting the feeling you've had very few, if any 'proper' ones) are all about compromise and discussion. You have seriously reduced the size of the net that you can cast to find love and happiness because of some weird obsession with someone's number of sex partners.

You're putting a weird onus and importance on sex which frankly isn't that important in love and maintaining a relationship.

She didn't rebunk me at all. It's just a differing of views which can be based on reason and logic. Your views can not be based on such. Anyway, that time I didn't explain myself at all well as I was in a bad mood (with love, funnily enough!) and a bit tipsy.

Further to all of this, the number of partners that someone has been with is of no importance to you and nor is it of any business.
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Again, you're casting aspersions against me in an attempt to discredit my opinion.

My viewpoint is my own, and I don't see anything particularly wrong with it. It's in keeping with my religious viewpoint and more importantly my own moral decisions on the matter.

And I'm not the only one who feels this way, in fact I'm currently dating a very pleasant girl who feels the same way as myself. Is she also odd?

So I'd completely disagree with your last statement which smacks of "I'm right, you're wrong", because someone that I am opening myself up to is granted access to me as a person, and we all know how much damage the wrong person can do to someone's psyche.

Heliospherez said:
And the funny thing is......

The ones that actually don't sleep around - or have a "decent" amount of partners earlier on.

Are usually the ones who reach the 30-40 age group and then start having affairs/more sex etc...... because they then realise what they have missed - and that sex is actually quite fun ( as opposed to the last 10 years they have spent with the only person they have had sex with - who was totally incompatible with them in bed) :eek:

Far play to any woman who want to sleep around. I wouldn;t judge her any differently - In fact - I would probably want to get to know her better..... as long as she wasn't a nutjob as well as a girl who enjoys sex as much as a man. Slating women for enjoying sex is a bit 90's - to be honest.
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Haha, got any figures for that? I particularly like the way you've just encompassed a vast range of people and say that they'd be disatisfied.

Also it's in contrast with Aklehez's opinion who says that sex isn't the be all and end all of love.
 
gropingmantis said:
HA wait till you start actually using them and the whole thing, or the end, comes off and disappears and you both search for it for 5 mins before realising ITS STILL INSIDE HER!!!!!!!!!!!

tmi?

:p
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0_o


You win Good Sir. Give me a few years and I'm sure I'll have quite a few fail stories for your good self. :D
 
lemonkettaz said:
Girls are more cunning about it.

Men and Women "play" about, but men are bad at it.

Women can do it better, plus all the power is in their hands, they can pick and choose... we cant.

If you think im talking rubbish, trust me im not. I find that relationships arent strong after 2years, then the girls are very happy to play and also the lads.

not 100% of the time though so everyone here in a good relationship chill out ha :)
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This is the absolute truth, woman are good liars.
 
new boy said:
extra small might be a better fit?

Only joking I know what you mean lol
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We've all been there. Useless things.

But you see Pate I have only had sex with two girls but have experienced a whole world more kinky **** than my more promiscuous friends, male or female. Holding out for anyone other than a virgin may prove disappointing, thats not to say I dont respect what you are doing I know a few people (all married under the age of 22, how interesting :p) of a similar bent but in my eyes there is nothing wrong with a bit of try before you buy. I mean you aren't going to marry a girl straight away so you may as well get to know one another fully. For me marriage is more sacred than sex and I would rather find everything there is about someone before committing like that, but then its your cherry, do with it as you will.
 
gropingmantis said:
We've all been there. Useless things.

But you see Pate I have only had sex with two girls but have experienced a whole world more kinky **** than my more promiscuous friends, male or female. Holding out for anyone other than a virgin may prove disappointing, thats not to say I dont respect what you are doing I know a few people (all married under the age of 22, how interesting :p) of a similar bent but in my eyes there is nothing wrong with a bit of try before you buy. I mean you aren't going to marry a girl straight away so you may as well get to know one another fully. For me marriage is more sacred than sex and I would rather find everything there is about someone before committing like that, but then its your cherry, do with it as you will.
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'tis a very fair point to make. Who know's what the future might bring! I'm getting on a bit myself having passed the 21 hurdle! Still, I reckon it's worth the wait.

If it's not, I'll come back here in 20 years and lament to you all. :p
 
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