Promiscuous girls/women

J-FRO said:
I think the "number" question/topic/discussion should never be a subject that a couple get on to, it only serves to provide the relationship with a whole load of trust issues. And that's taken from personal experience.
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I think if it becomes an issue then the trust problem was already there.
 
If you want to marry someone who is a virgin then join a church, quite a few of them have rules such as this.

I dont really see much difference between kissing and sex, both involve you putting a part of your body inside someone else and no one bats an eyelid at kissing multiple people on a night out.
 
Spenty said:
Your other half wouldn't be the first woman to lie to their partner about being the "first".
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her ***** was #1

wow this forums censorship is beyond a joke since the germans took over , i can say penis but not a plastic object that resembles one wtf?
 
The problem now imo girls/woman didn't want the label or stigma of been a ****/slapper/easy but now a lot don't seem to care. A lot of guys will sleep with anything that moves the easier the better. So theres no balance any more.

I have just met a girl and she doesn't want to rush into sex which i totally respect and is very rare to find these days. Its nice we can just enjoys each others company and not be too focused on sex.

I had a one night stand once ( at the time i didnt know it was gonna be a one night stand ) It was a very empty hollow experience and i vowed i would never do it again. I dont know how male and female can just sleep around and just move from partner to partner. I much rather be with some one i know well and i can trust but each to their own i guess.
 
I too had a single one-night stand that was really ****, just couldn't enjoy sex without the actual feelings for the person.

Doesn't mean I have a problem with guys or girls who do enjoy them (provided they do it responsibly).

Funnily enough with regards to guys feeling pressured to perform well if their partner has experienced more men, one of my exes was on around 25 different guys when we got together, and later confided to a mutual friend that I was the best. Result!
 
Exactly, there are very few virgins physiologically with the proliferation of toys available which renders their first sexual experience.
 
DooMeR said:
It was a very empty hollow experience and i vowed i would never do it again. I dont know how male and female can just sleep around and just move from partner to partner. I much rather be with some one i know well and i can trust but each to their own i guess.
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I get what you are saying but if you take it for what it is and don't expect it to be something else than it can scratch an itch. I found the problem with one night stands is when one person thinks it will extend beyond one night. When both are quite happy it is for just one night then you can have a fun and experimental time without some of the consequences and inhibitions you may normally have.
 
I do think its worse for woman to sleep around with men just due to ease etc (not that its hard for men either), and I told my gf this the other day (much to her protest :p).

I don't really care if people have had 1 night stands though, nor about numbers of people with. Best not to ask I guess, doesnt change anything about the person you're with.
 
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One night stands are, odd, first one I had was, uncomfortable and loads of people have had the same thing, young, both of us not confident or "open" about sex. Went back to her place, while we had sex it was about as unintimate as sex can get. It wasn't great at all, but this had NOTHING to do with not being in a relationship, but confidence and experience to a degree.

You can have bad sex with someone you love, or someone you just met, and you can have great sex with someone you love or someone you just met. It just takes a lot of confidence, being completely open and being intimate with someone you don't know.

IE, its easier to say to someone you've been with for months, "hey baby, if you tilt your hips forwards a bit while I'm hitting that from behind it will be better for both of us, and if you don't mind, later on I've got a gerbil I want to show you later", than someone you just met, you can infact say it to someone you just met and have equally as good sex though.

think of it kind of like californication if you've seen it. You can be the smooth open guy who has no sexual hangups at all, has no problem talking to a woman about sex or telling them what he wants, or ASKING THE WOMAN WHAT SHE WANTS and having great sex, or the weird kinky guy who isn't good at sex, isn't confident with women and doesn't have as good a time as he should have.

Either way, its perfectly possible you might only have the "best sex of my life" quality sex with someone you love, that doesn't mean you can't have "better than a fap" sex with someone you don't love if you fancy it now and then, and there is nothing wrong with a couple people enjoying themselves.
 
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Spenty said:
Your other half wouldn't be the first woman to lie to their partner about being the "first".
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We were both virgins when we met at 16, I'm pretty sure she wasn't lying, at least I believe she wasn't lying

*grabs lube*

It was a tight fit, if you get me lol
 
Pate said:
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Cue me finding out 5 months down the line she had had at least 15!
itude isn't that uncommon, plenty of girls at my uni have said that they will lie about the figures they have slept with. :(
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It is a fact that boys will exaggerate their partners by at least 4 times and girls will under exaggerate by at least 4 times.
 
Jay794 said:
We were both virgins when we met at 16, I'm pretty sure she wasn't lying, at least I believe she wasn't lying

*grabs lube*

It was a tight fit, if you get me lol
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You're very skanky. To talk about your partner so freely like that, she must be really skanky too. Don't you have any poise?
 
Jay794 said:
We were both virgins when we met at 16, I'm pretty sure she wasn't lying, at least I believe she wasn't lying

*grabs lube*

It was a tight fit, if you get me lol
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Pretty disrespectful and horrible thing to say about your girlfriend on a public forum. You claim to be engaged to her too?

You're a real catch.
 
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