"if your child takes a 2 week holiday during term time, their chances of gaining 5 a*-c grades drops 82%"
I call BS..... 2 weeks drops it down 82% lmao, what the?
Where the hell did they make up that statistic from?
Does that mean 4 weeks out and they may aswell quit school as they will be a complete failure?![]()
Perhaps you went on holidays in term time and therefore can't read, you missed out an important word "to"
Never underestimate the value of a good, well planned and well though out family holiday, both for the dynamic of the family unit and the well being and education of the child.
And what on earth is "social fitting"?
never underestimate the value of saving up for a worthwhile holiday every two or three years in the actual holidays
social fitting as in kids being kids laughing at the poor kid who can't afford a holiday in the normal holidays
There are a lot of families out there who can afford ONE holiday with their kids full stop... and if it means they are forced to take it in the summer holidays when the prices are as much as three times the cost, it just means that they will never go on a family holiday. There are a lot of families whose jobs have very strict holiday timings, that do not fit in with the summer recess....and still others where leave is at very short notice and sporadic.
Things simply are not as black and white as some seem to think. Besides, sometimes the Parents actually know what is best for their children and if I wanted to take them out of school I would, with or without permission and there is not really a lot anyone can do about it quite frankly. I mean really, a £50 fine when a family will save hundreds on a holiday by going in term time....
The one time we did it, I wrote a letter INFORMING the school that my son would not be in school for the beginning week of term as he would still be on holiday with us and that my leave was such that it was the only time available.....The headmistress asked us to come in to discuss it as it wasn't permitted to miss the first week of a new intake, and I simply wrote another note saying the subject did not need further discussion and my son would return to school on such and such a date.....that was it....what can they actually do about it.
Fining me wouldn't have looked too good in the local press that would have been for sure.
Sometimes Schools overstep themselves quite frankly, they should be concentrating on the kids who are truant and the parents who don't care.....generally the same ones who do not take their kids on holiday to begin with and whose kids have the worst attendance records, not chasing after the Parents that actually take an active interest in their kids and make sure that they are at school normally....it seems that it is easier to deal with reasonable people (and the ones most likely to pay a fine) than actually do something constructive about the actual real problem.
Yeah, OK!!!!
I think you will find that a lot of kids do not get to go on holiday at all, so anyone who is going on any kind of holiday is unlikely to be a victim of your "social fitting".....they are more likely to be jealous that the kid was enjoying himself on holiday while they were in school.
social fitting as in kids being kids laughing at the poor kid who can't afford a holiday in the normal holidays
Holidays are subject to demand just like anything else.
There is nothing wrong with taking you child out of school for a fortnight if you really can't afford to do it otherwise....to be honest a decent family holiday is probably a lot more beneficial to the child than a couple of weeks missed schooling.
You just need to be sensible and not do it at the critical periods in their education....so basically before they are 14 and begin their GCSEs and not around exam time etc.....
I think schools have gotten far too draconian on what they demand these days.....as long as the school has enough notice and the child is not going to miss something critical or can catch up on his return, then it is not as big a deal as schools make it out to be.
IF you follow some sensible rules then it has no more impact on your child's education than having a bout of the flu....in fact given the experiences and family time inherent in a family holiday it is probably beneficial to their education.
They get every single weekend off, not to mention 8 weeks in summer. Unlike everyone else. Even outs if you ask me.
never underestimate the value of saving up for a worthwhile holiday every two or three years in the actual holidays
social fitting as in kids being kids laughing at the poor kid who can't afford a holiday in the normal holidays