How often do you txt a girl you have only just meet?

opethdisciple · 13 May 2012 at 15:56

Met a very pretty girl on Friday who looks wise I would have thought was way out of my league.

Regardless, I got a kiss and a number out of it.

Only been two days and dont want to seem too keen etc so havent mustered the courage to call or anything like that, but have been in conversation with her via txt, but can you over do the txting?

Should I be txting her every day?

I dont want to seem uninterested or a pest....

Ricochet J · 13 May 2012 at 15:58

Edit: nm

Bennie-Mac · 13 May 2012 at 15:59

Text her constantly. This let's her know you care. She won't consider you a pest, if I know women (and believe me I do, I know over 4 of them) she will think its romantic.

shootersam · 13 May 2012 at 15:59

Pics or it didn't happen

Morgoth · 13 May 2012 at 15:59

Send a text asking her if she'd like to meet up for drinks later in the week.

cheechm · 13 May 2012 at 15:59

Quick - to the internet!

Deleted member 77746 · 13 May 2012 at 16:00

Yep you can over text. Yep you can be a pest. You do what you want/have to do only you can choose what you feel is right and wrong depending on this girls characteristics and personality.

Woden · 13 May 2012 at 16:00

Morgoth said:
Send a text asking her if she'd like to meet up for drinks later in the week.

Then smash her back door in, in the car park.

4T5 · 13 May 2012 at 16:01

For success.
You should respond to any text she sends you & send her a thinking about You text once a day.

fozzybear · 13 May 2012 at 16:01

Aged 30 and asking this question? Wow.

Presumed you were 14 or 15!

Emphacy · 13 May 2012 at 16:02

One text - "Drinks tomorrow?" or something along the lines.
The thing with women is that if you seem over keen they back away, but if you take it easy they seem more interested - through my experiences anyway.

opethdisciple · 13 May 2012 at 16:04

fozzybear said:
Aged 30 and asking this question? Wow.

Presumed you were 14 or 15!

Tell me about it!

RomanNose · 13 May 2012 at 16:04

Text her so much that your hands fall off and you start growing replacement ones. That way, she will know you love her.

Broken Hope · 13 May 2012 at 16:05

3 days

opethdisciple · 13 May 2012 at 16:05

Emphacy said:
One text - "Drinks tomorrow?" or something along the lines.
The thing with women is that if you seem over keen they back away, but if you take it easy they seem more interested - through my experiences anyway.

You need to get the balance right. If you come accross too intense or too keen, they think something is up...

opethdisciple · 13 May 2012 at 16:06

Morgoth said:
Send a text asking her if she'd like to meet up for drinks later in the week.

Im leading up to this. I told her on Friday that I will ask you out to dinner on saturday, but when I txt her too see what she was up too she said she was visiting freinds, so I thought I wouldnt pester...

Streeteh · 13 May 2012 at 16:07

I tend to go for the rule of 'who texted last?'

Essentially only text in reply to stuff she's said. If she doesn't reply leave it a couple of days before you contact them.

Avoids seeming overly keen which for some reason puts women off more than seeming aloof :/

opethdisciple · 13 May 2012 at 16:10

Streeteh said:
I tend to go for the rule of 'who texted last?'

Essentially only text in reply to stuff she's said. If she doesn't reply leave it a couple of days before you contact them.

Avoids seeming overly keen which for some reason puts women off more than seeming aloof :/

Yep, but someones got to initiate it.

Why cant this be easy... I mean all I want to do is make love. What does she stand to lose?

Skillmister · 13 May 2012 at 16:10

Text at least 3 times for every 1 she sends. Also add 'please respond' if she hasn't replied within 26 minutes

yhack · 13 May 2012 at 16:11

Avoid all contact for like 2 weeks, then send a text asking what's up.