Do something decent, and make sure it's different to other birthdays, especially if you were too poor to celebrate her 21st properly. I've shot myself in the foot though as I bought my fiancee a car for her 21st![]()
If not a holiday, buy her a designer handbag. Women love them. Plus, they last forever and are practical. They might even hold their value fairly well, too.
Nice holiday somewhere in medieval-style Europe... think Prague, Bruges and the like.
Give her a nice pearl necklace on the first night.
You will have to go down on her for a change I'm afraid.
I keep reading the OXO tower as some sort of euphemism am I doing it right?
Back to back the Lord of the Rings trilogy + microwave dinner.
Weekend at Butlins in Bognor Regis followed by a candle lit dinner for two at McDonald's
Disclaimer: Doing either of these options above could lead to a divorce!