I dont understand some women!

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Ok yes I am a woman but I dont understand some women! Its 6 weeks to our wedding and I have just had a lesiurly coffee whilst looking at wedding forums. Basically we are all set to go now bar a few things but thought Id check Id remembered everything but oh boy! Its full of women flapping and panicking ohhh the white isn't quite white enough I feel sorry for their husband to be!
So the question is what was your fiancee like in the run up to your wedding or what do you think they will be like if you were to get married?
 
Mine was great! She doesn't buy into that whole cookie-cutter £15,000 wedding stuff either, so we eloped. :D

Congratulations, by the way!
 
My wife was calmer than I was......but then she doesn't flap about anything, in all the years we have been married I have never known her get flustered about anything at all, she is far too laid back about everything.

unlike me.
 
Actually my one was quite ok, she organised the whole wedding I did not help at all but it went quite well.

We had around 2500 people attend.
 
my wedding was cheap and low key, but still very special. my wife (well ex) was happy, relaxed and all that. unfortunately it only lasted a year :p
 
Cant get enough of 'Dont tell the bride' on bbc3, funny seeing how flappy the women get :P
 
I really don't understand why some people spend so much on a wedding. 30K+ is crazy money, I think I'd prefer to just go abroad and take a few close family and friends instead. Less cost, less madness and the money is primarily spent on you and the bride!
 
The first marriage was a low key affair so there wasnt a lot to worry about, my second marriage the Missus dealt with in her usual calm and effiecient fashion.
 
Gawwwd. What annoys me most is that pregnant/soon to be married women, just don't talk about anything else for more than 3 minutes. Granted they are excited but it seems to be more than that. :p

The amount of money spent is mindblowing, I've seen the brides parents get too involved before when the couple only wanted a modest affair though.
 
I get married in just under 3 months. The missus has organised everything. She gets very stressed but doesn't stress in my direction, so I'm happy with that!

She is Bridezilla though, but in a good way. She's the most organised person ever too, so has masses upon masses of papers, plans, receipts just for this wedding!
 
Mine is next August and I've dealt with a fair amount of the stuff so far. I'm a hero, I know. I will await the shower of **** that I'll get on the run up to it though. I'll just have to keep reminding her to breathe.
 
We discovered pretty quickly that if you mention the word 'wedding' to anyone the price doubles. The dress was from a nice boutique shop rather than a wedding place, and we had the reception in a private room in a fantastic pub at the foot of Box Hill. We had a great day for a fraction of the cost of a traditional wedding. Only invited close friends and family to the ceremony and reception to keep cost down, then had a massive do in a function room in a west end pub the following day which cost nothing. My wife was fantastically cool about all this, and is actually really proud that we had an amazing wedding in our own way and without it costing a fortune.
 
I'm getting married next year. We had it all planned out over 18 months ago and we haven't had to think about it since. Fortunately both of us are really laid back so there has been zero stress.
 
My gf wouldn't be a bride-zilla, not interested in marriage but if we did we would elope, as her family is bride-zilla material or would just take over. Her cousins wedding was a proper princess fest, I got told off for out showing the groom by wearing a kilt and was ask to change into trousers, eh no!

Father of the bride had to ask for permission to take his jacket off at the reception in which he was sternly told "NO!" poor guy was sweating buckets all night. Was probably sweating that much any ways as the dress cost £9,000.

EDIT: Oh & Congrats! :P
 
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If a woman cannot understand another woman what hope have we got! :(
err that would be no hope! :D


oooh congratz!

and she'll probably be bridezilla...lol

Hehe I have not been bridezilla! My sisters and my mother have been bridezillaish they have been nothing but trouble my sisters have only just decided to go shopping for bridesmaids dresses and im not allowed to go with them.

Thanks for all congrats btw :D
 
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