Tell us about things you're very good at

lucy_bee said:
Okay doke.

Pouty, hand flappy things I am good at.

1) Wearing high heels. Allow me to elaborate. 75% of the natal women I see wearing heels have NO IDEA at all how to wear them properly. They either stomp about like they're wearing jackboots or they bend their knees so much they look like gorillas wading through mud. For god's sake, if you're going to wear them at least learn how to walk properly in them. And if you can't walk properly in them, just stick to flats.

2) Blending makeup. I can do wonderful things with different colour eyeshadow, blusher and bronzer. In fact, I enjoy it so much that I would like to see about getting into the makeup industry at some point.

3) Cooking breakfast ;)

4) Chatting girls up. Easy peasy. Maybe this should have come before the one above ;)

5) Challenging perceptions.
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Now watch as a large percentage of the forum tries to flirt with you more than they already have.
 
Raymond Lin said:
As a guy or as a girl?

If you are chatting them up as a girl, hetersexual or homosexual (although that depends if they know you you)?
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Either as a guy or a girl.

And when pressed about my sexuality, I always shrug my shoulders and say 'I dunno'. Biologically, I'm male, but identify as female, and present mostly as female. Soon I will legally and physically be a female.

I find women attractive sexually, I find the company of men nice but not in a sexual way.

Does all that make me heterosexual, homosexual, lesbian or gay? I have no blooming idea :confused:
 
When you get a vagina I know this is going to sound funny but do you not think that you will want to use it...
 
lucy_bee said:
Either as a guy or a girl.

And when pressed about my sexuality, I always shrug my shoulders and say 'I dunno'. Biologically, I'm male, but identify as female, and present mostly as female. Soon I will legally and physically be a female.

I find women attractive sexually, I find the company of men nice but not in a sexual way.

Does all that make me heterosexual, homosexual, lesbian or gay? I have no blooming idea :confused:
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I think you misunderstood me. Are those girls who you chat up like girls or like boys.

When you say "chatting girls up"

That is with the intention of a date/relationship or a night at your place I take it. Whatever it is, it involve sexual attraction, charm and personality. Now, I am just curious as to "chatting girls up", are you doing it mostly as:

1 - a man

Then which is a regular man chat up girl scenario - which I suck

2 - a girl chatting up a girl who likes girl (perhaps you are in a gay club)

Then it means you are out looking for a lesbian - which I have no experience of!

3 - a girl chatting who you don't know her sexual orientation.

In which case if you succeed in your goal then hats off ! Although I find girls tend to experiment more than men.

I am not questioning your sexual orientation, it has nothing to do with gender dysphoria. Just wondering what you mean by "chatting girls up". If it is No. 3 then respect !
 
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Mason- said:
When you get a vagina I know this is going to sound funny but do you not think that you will want to use it...
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It will be getting used.

Don't need a man for that!

You make a valid point though, maybe at some stage I'll think, I wonder what it actually feels like to experience one of those ugly veiny spitty things.

I'll cross that bridge when I come to it :)
 
Raymond Lin said:
3 - a girl chatting who you don't know her sexual orientation.
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This, absolutely this.

I've had my fair share of slaps round the face and point blank '**** off you freak' but then again haven't we all at some point.

I have a very good radar for spotting the most likely girls, and I love the chase - probably more than the end result actually.

I love the change in attitude, at first there's always the 'what the hell' then that gradually melts away into a languid curiosity. Once they start asking a lot of questions I know I'm most of the way there. As a bloke, I could never be too touchy feely but as a girl, it all helps.

Believe me, there's nothing sweeter than that first kiss :)
 
I'm good at:

1) Eating cake
2) Applying make up
3) Getting my own way
4) Driving :D
5) Being a bitch
6) Giving advice (doesn't necessarily mean good advice)
 
lucy_bee said:
This, absolutely this.

I've had my fair share of slaps round the face and point blank '**** off you freak' but then again haven't we all at some point.

I have a very good radar for spotting the most likely girls, and I love the chase - probably more than the end result actually.

I love the change in attitude, at first there's always the 'what the hell' then that gradually melts away into a languid curiosity. Once they start asking a lot of questions I know I'm most of the way there. As a bloke, I could never be too touchy feely but as a girl, it all helps.

Believe me, there's nothing sweeter than that first kiss :)
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So, you chat up a girl, who you don't know her sexual orientation (this was my point). And that you are hoping this girl would like you.

I guess, where i am trying to get my head round is that...I mean they will like you FOR who you are, as i can't see you lying, i mean once the clothes are off there is nothing to hide anyway, but what I am struggling with is that these girls must be straight or bi.

I can't see a 100% lesbian would go through with it, which means...after your op, you might need to adjust your radar some what? The demographic you were aiming will changed, won't they?
 
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lucy_bee said:
It will be getting used.

Don't need a man for that!

You make a valid point though, maybe at some stage I'll think, I wonder what it actually feels like to experience one of those ugly veiny spitty things.

I'll cross that bridge when I come to it :)
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I just think after everything's done and you are having hormones that you will want it.
 
Raymond Lin said:
but what I am struggling with is that these girls must be straight or bi.
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That's the thing, sexuality can be such a fluid thing (as is gender!) that to try and pigeonhole someone at any given point in time can be very difficult. Put it this way, I've had much more success with girls since I started presenting as a girl on nights out (majority of the time in mainstream 'normal' bars and clubs) than I ever did presenting as male. Whether that's down to natal females being more curious about their sexuality and more willing to explore it, I don't know?

I can't see a 100% lesbian would go through with it, which means...after your op, you might want to adjust your radar some what? The demographic you were aiming for changed a little, won't they?
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It will yeah. The goalposts change quite a lot post-op. But it's something that I will have to attend to when the time comes :)
 
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